It just seems like yesterday that we were celebrating the year 2000. We now are living on the last day of 2010. So much has transpired during this year which brought out all of our emotional triggers in response. Politics, volcanoes, earthquakes and of course sports. As much as I like to look back occasionally I really look forward to the uncharted waters of the future. An excitement grips my mind when I dare to daydream of all the opportunities which will avail themselves in the next 365 days.
Some of the challenges that await me are already cast but it is the unknown which amuses me. As a child I remember getting boxes, sent by our Aunt and Uncle filled with small treasures or so they seemed but it was the anticipation of the opening of the box that gave me pleasure. Life is a very exciting experience and this year will be no exception. I have some medical issues which will be resolved sometime this year and it will be new for me and I look upon this as an adventure. Adventures deal with the unknown and surprises are part of the trip. My wish is that my adventure and surprises meet my expectations.
During the next year I wish to communicate in a more meaningful way with my family and friends. Time shared with people give up the greatest rewards and offer opportunities to bring you closer to self actualization. Our growth curve sometimes becomes stagnant so this year I will make an effort to shake things up and revitalize my inner self.
Time shared with my grandchildren this holiday has been a eye opener and I have to get with it to keep up with their energy. So this is my goal and I will need much help to reach it. However the journey is the real test and I shall try to walk quickly and straight.
Friday, December 31, 2010
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Some Things Never Get Old...Just Better
On this December 30 morning I am doing as I always do every morning. I am sipping green tea and while sitting on my favourite chair, reading The Toronto Star from back to front my mind is dozing. This morning is a little different as there is a crispness about the environment as a heavy white frost coats the lawn and trees. I peer out the front window and wave to the same dog walkers and see the same cars drift down the street carrying sleepy workers to their jobs.
Through these hazy eyes I see my old friend the Christmas cactus. It is now the main attraction in the front window as the Christmas Tree is packed away for another year. I see it in a different light as it was pushed to the background for a few days and now appears as it should as a solid fixture in our home. It has a glorious history being over 150 years old. It once graced the home of my mother in laws's husband's grandmother's home in British Columbia. As the previous owners have long gone to their kind reward the plant became the property of my wife Theresa.
It is large by any standard and when Theresa decided to come East to live in Ontario it appeared that the plant would land in the hands of a stranger. When I first saw the beautiful flowering cactus I decided to make it my own and when returning from a visit to B.C. I tucked it in the back seat of a Honda Civic. It was quite a job to get it in the small car and it took up all the back seat space. As I travelled East I watered it but forgot to protect it from the sun. Part of it got burned along the journey.
I removed the plant from the car and established it to its place of importance and it has been there ever since, I have made many plants from the frowns of this cactus and its babies are just as beautiful as itself. A cactus such as this becomes a living symbol of the beauty of nature and during the cold winter months this flower not only blooms once but twice. The first blooming begins in December and lasts about two months and the second one begins in March and lasts until April. This show of colour brightens our spirits during a long winter.
Through these hazy eyes I see my old friend the Christmas cactus. It is now the main attraction in the front window as the Christmas Tree is packed away for another year. I see it in a different light as it was pushed to the background for a few days and now appears as it should as a solid fixture in our home. It has a glorious history being over 150 years old. It once graced the home of my mother in laws's husband's grandmother's home in British Columbia. As the previous owners have long gone to their kind reward the plant became the property of my wife Theresa.
It is large by any standard and when Theresa decided to come East to live in Ontario it appeared that the plant would land in the hands of a stranger. When I first saw the beautiful flowering cactus I decided to make it my own and when returning from a visit to B.C. I tucked it in the back seat of a Honda Civic. It was quite a job to get it in the small car and it took up all the back seat space. As I travelled East I watered it but forgot to protect it from the sun. Part of it got burned along the journey.
I removed the plant from the car and established it to its place of importance and it has been there ever since, I have made many plants from the frowns of this cactus and its babies are just as beautiful as itself. A cactus such as this becomes a living symbol of the beauty of nature and during the cold winter months this flower not only blooms once but twice. The first blooming begins in December and lasts about two months and the second one begins in March and lasts until April. This show of colour brightens our spirits during a long winter.
This cactus just shows us that some things never grow old but get better with age. We can take a lesson from this when dealing with old folks.
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Craftsmanship
As a young boy I was happy to make things out of wood using an ax, handsaw, hammer and a spoke shave. A coping saw came later and I used it when I had blades. My efforts were pretty crude but I continued until in my middle age when I graduated to rocking chairs, benches and boxes and large wood objects. These items never reached the point where they displayed a title of craftsmanship.A few days ago one of our friends came to stay overnight and during his visit he displayed about a dozen cheese boards. After we admired and commented about the quality of the product Don offered Theresa the opportunity to pick one out for us. Theresa had a difficult time in choosing because all were so beautiful and so well crafted. Finally she picked one out and we will treasure it and use it to highlight our table when we have guests.
Don gave instructions for the upkeep of the wooden board and left a note to identify the woods used in the production. Our board is made of Lyptus, Maple, Mahogany and Birds Eye Maple.
I admire people who are able to create a piece of art from nature's bounty. We collected many treasures over the years and this one is special.
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
The good. The Bad, The Ugly.
On first thought I see a positive picture of Canada with one of the best Olympics for our Country. The Venues in beautiful British Columbia were the perfect backdrop for this world event. Despite lack of snow and tremendous costs everyone agreed that this was a overwhelming success. Our opening and closing ceremonies highlighted the aboriginal roots to that area as well as the rest of Canada. I hope that the feelings expressed at the Olympics will be reflected in the governments treatment of its first nations needs, like clean water.
In a country where the rich are very rich and the poor are very poor we should ask the question WHY. The unequal distribution of wealth caused by our economy being controlled by international consortium's whose only purpose is to make a profit leaves us in a state where compassion is missing from the equation. In years past when most of our companies were small and controlled locally there was an element of local conscientiousness. Yes there was a profit motive but when the owner of the company lives in your town and sits beside you in church and coaches minor hockey you get a better picture of the way it was. This is only going to get worse and in a time where companies are growing so large that they are bigger than the government we can expect more of the same. This is the BAD.
For me the ugly was the manner that we as a country or more specifically the government handled the G9 and G20. I have never been so angry at the events that transpired in my entire life. We as a nation where, our prime minister walked among the crowds in Ottawa on Canada Day without great security or danger, where peaceful marches are a regular expression of showing our support for an issue , received a black eye for the manner we conducted ourselves on those few days in Toronto. Why? For a photo opp, a justification for spending $1,000,000,000 of taxpayers money or a complete lack of reading the situation in a timely manner. I trust the rest of the world will forget over time this mess and we will once again be held in high esteen for the way we treat our citizens participating in democratic actions.
In a country where the rich are very rich and the poor are very poor we should ask the question WHY. The unequal distribution of wealth caused by our economy being controlled by international consortium's whose only purpose is to make a profit leaves us in a state where compassion is missing from the equation. In years past when most of our companies were small and controlled locally there was an element of local conscientiousness. Yes there was a profit motive but when the owner of the company lives in your town and sits beside you in church and coaches minor hockey you get a better picture of the way it was. This is only going to get worse and in a time where companies are growing so large that they are bigger than the government we can expect more of the same. This is the BAD.
For me the ugly was the manner that we as a country or more specifically the government handled the G9 and G20. I have never been so angry at the events that transpired in my entire life. We as a nation where, our prime minister walked among the crowds in Ottawa on Canada Day without great security or danger, where peaceful marches are a regular expression of showing our support for an issue , received a black eye for the manner we conducted ourselves on those few days in Toronto. Why? For a photo opp, a justification for spending $1,000,000,000 of taxpayers money or a complete lack of reading the situation in a timely manner. I trust the rest of the world will forget over time this mess and we will once again be held in high esteen for the way we treat our citizens participating in democratic actions.
Monday, December 27, 2010
After Glow
Christmas having gone by so quickly I have time to relax in the after glow of another warm experience. Sharing time with family and friends had a tendency to charge your batteries and put you in a happy frame of mind. This year was special as usual but since all of us were together in the same room itwas indeed a bonus.
Although Christmas in not really about gifts I must confess that I received a carload of offerings that would make anyone very happy. A hand made Grand Father clock from my grandson was a surprise and we will complete the project together as he wished to stain it with a colour to my liking. A prospective carpenter in the family. My oldest granddaughter made a video of a Lemon tree which had significance from our long past relationship with nature and the art of growing beautiful plants from seeds.
My oldest daughter made me a one of a kind calendar to remind me of all the family birthdays and the photography is outstanding. Daughter #2 was taking care of my back and presented me with a massage and heat cushion to go with my lazy boy chair. Already I have reaped the benefits of this device. My youngest daughter spoiled our household with more cooking utensils from pampered chef. She knows how we love these products and this year she filled in all the blanks. One last in kitchen composter from my son completed the children's contributions to my well being and I loved each one. Grandchildren were creative in their gifts and all in all I will use and appreciate these thoughtful presentations.
However I want them to know that the short time we shared was more important and will linger longer than the material gifts as memories are forever. Already the pictures we took and shared are a small treasure and will enable me to re-live the joy of the Christmas of 2010. We can now look ahead to the days leading up to New Year's and a new beginning for all of us after such a positive year ending event called Family Christmas.
Although Christmas in not really about gifts I must confess that I received a carload of offerings that would make anyone very happy. A hand made Grand Father clock from my grandson was a surprise and we will complete the project together as he wished to stain it with a colour to my liking. A prospective carpenter in the family. My oldest granddaughter made a video of a Lemon tree which had significance from our long past relationship with nature and the art of growing beautiful plants from seeds.
My oldest daughter made me a one of a kind calendar to remind me of all the family birthdays and the photography is outstanding. Daughter #2 was taking care of my back and presented me with a massage and heat cushion to go with my lazy boy chair. Already I have reaped the benefits of this device. My youngest daughter spoiled our household with more cooking utensils from pampered chef. She knows how we love these products and this year she filled in all the blanks. One last in kitchen composter from my son completed the children's contributions to my well being and I loved each one. Grandchildren were creative in their gifts and all in all I will use and appreciate these thoughtful presentations.
However I want them to know that the short time we shared was more important and will linger longer than the material gifts as memories are forever. Already the pictures we took and shared are a small treasure and will enable me to re-live the joy of the Christmas of 2010. We can now look ahead to the days leading up to New Year's and a new beginning for all of us after such a positive year ending event called Family Christmas.
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Remembering the Past
As a young boy I used every means to make money.Besides my large paper route I used our horse and dump cart to haul ashes and shore coal. For this I gleaned dollars which I kept between the pages of on of Dads Eng1neer books. Around this time of the year Dad and I would go to the woods a cut Xmas trees, I do not think we knew who owned to land or trees as the coal company seemed to own just about everything.
We used a horse and sled and would pile 8 or 10 trees on and return home where we stood them in the snow. People would order the trees through Dad and we would deliver them and sometimes make a wooden stand for the customer. We would charge $2 for a regular tree and $3 for large ones. As these trees were not the tree farm variety they never seemed that good when we got home. They looked fine in the bush.
One Christmas we had a good year and must have sold 20 or more. We were always left with a few to choose from for our house. This particular year on the evening we were to trim our tree Dad brought in the best one of the rejects. All of us were very upset at the look of this squiggly, ugly Charlie Brown Tree.
Not to be too upsetting to the family Dad went to the garage and brought back a brace and bit, a spoke shave and a small saw. The piece of art began by Dad also bringing in another tree. He would drill a hole in the ugly tree, cut off a branch from the second tree and trim the end and shove it into the drilled hole. All this with 10 pairs of eyes on the operation. Branch after branch was added until Dad stood up the made over tree and it was perfect in our eyes. We all showed our appreciation by expressing our feelings with superlatives. Best expressed by our youngest who declared it the most beautiful tree she ever saw.
That year we had a special Christmas as it was the last year we were all together as a family.It was 1948, the year of the miners strike and the Year my sister went away to Teachers College in Truro. Best of all it showed once again how our Father could do anything he put his mind to. He was amazing.
We used a horse and sled and would pile 8 or 10 trees on and return home where we stood them in the snow. People would order the trees through Dad and we would deliver them and sometimes make a wooden stand for the customer. We would charge $2 for a regular tree and $3 for large ones. As these trees were not the tree farm variety they never seemed that good when we got home. They looked fine in the bush.
One Christmas we had a good year and must have sold 20 or more. We were always left with a few to choose from for our house. This particular year on the evening we were to trim our tree Dad brought in the best one of the rejects. All of us were very upset at the look of this squiggly, ugly Charlie Brown Tree.
Not to be too upsetting to the family Dad went to the garage and brought back a brace and bit, a spoke shave and a small saw. The piece of art began by Dad also bringing in another tree. He would drill a hole in the ugly tree, cut off a branch from the second tree and trim the end and shove it into the drilled hole. All this with 10 pairs of eyes on the operation. Branch after branch was added until Dad stood up the made over tree and it was perfect in our eyes. We all showed our appreciation by expressing our feelings with superlatives. Best expressed by our youngest who declared it the most beautiful tree she ever saw.
That year we had a special Christmas as it was the last year we were all together as a family.It was 1948, the year of the miners strike and the Year my sister went away to Teachers College in Truro. Best of all it showed once again how our Father could do anything he put his mind to. He was amazing.
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Bonus Points
With a few days to go before Christmas we thought everything was ready and waiting. However we received some bonus points in the way of unexpected greetings from friends from afar. There were few close golf partners and wives who sent us happy sounding greetings and I personally felt Florida warm by their remarks.
A close friend unexpectedly called to say he would be here for a night so we have the advantage of being filled in on all the news as he recently became a Grandfather. He is very excited about the baby but as his wife is away west to help the new mother Don is going to look after his mother and mother in law for a Christmas dinner. They are covering all the bases and that is the way it should be.
Our grandchildren are returning from exams at university and we love the interaction with these future leaders in our community. The fresh thinking of these young ones tells me we have nothing to fear in the future.
We have been able to contact nearly all the people we wish to bring greetings but a few will be last minute. I prefer a phone call to a card as you are able to extend your feelings and receive same in a warm manner. I find I also give my friends an opportunity to express thoughts, concerns and worries that might be left unsaid. For some it might be the only chance to get something off their chest before the new year.
Bonus points, Yes, rewards for being a friend to those who have impacted your life in a meaningful way.
A close friend unexpectedly called to say he would be here for a night so we have the advantage of being filled in on all the news as he recently became a Grandfather. He is very excited about the baby but as his wife is away west to help the new mother Don is going to look after his mother and mother in law for a Christmas dinner. They are covering all the bases and that is the way it should be.
Our grandchildren are returning from exams at university and we love the interaction with these future leaders in our community. The fresh thinking of these young ones tells me we have nothing to fear in the future.
We have been able to contact nearly all the people we wish to bring greetings but a few will be last minute. I prefer a phone call to a card as you are able to extend your feelings and receive same in a warm manner. I find I also give my friends an opportunity to express thoughts, concerns and worries that might be left unsaid. For some it might be the only chance to get something off their chest before the new year.
Bonus points, Yes, rewards for being a friend to those who have impacted your life in a meaningful way.
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Finishing Touches
With Christmas a few days away we are trying to put the finishing touches to our preparations. Theresa and Doris used two days of this busy time to wrap about 20 gifts for the special day and the tree trimming was easy as we only used our small window tree this year. Comfort food is every day as the weather seems cold for the spoiled Florida girls. Cabbage rolls, home made Boston Beans and tonight stew. John Denver sang it best when he sang, It Feels Good To Be Back Home Again.
We have an old Angel to place on the tree and it used to be special to hold one of the little ones up to place this ornament on top of the tree. It is getting ragged as it must be way over fifty years old and once belonged to my mother in law. I like it and this year as no small ones were around I placed her up there myself.
We are well organized and try to have everything ready days ahead so we can have a stress free few days to soak up the Xmas Energy to cope with Christmas Day.
I just heard Theresa saying , "That's It", meaning she tied the last bow and placed the last gift under the tree. All this being said there will still be a few finishing touches before Santa rings our door bell on the 25Th.
We have an old Angel to place on the tree and it used to be special to hold one of the little ones up to place this ornament on top of the tree. It is getting ragged as it must be way over fifty years old and once belonged to my mother in law. I like it and this year as no small ones were around I placed her up there myself.
We are well organized and try to have everything ready days ahead so we can have a stress free few days to soak up the Xmas Energy to cope with Christmas Day.
I just heard Theresa saying , "That's It", meaning she tied the last bow and placed the last gift under the tree. All this being said there will still be a few finishing touches before Santa rings our door bell on the 25Th.
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Christmas Traditions
Our family are so traditional when it comes to Xmas it would make you laugh. Even our grand children are upset if we suggest a small change in the way we celebrate our Christmas. From the decorations we have on our tree to the order we plan Christmas Day is set in stone. For us , we have some old decorations that have lingered for some years and must make an appearance on this special day.
We had a friend Arlyss who was into stained glass and usually gave or sold the first one made to us. He made angels of every variety, boats, flower plant holders and overhead light shades. All we're great but the nativity scene he gave us in 1978 was special. Every year I carefully pack it away to ensure it's safety. I have a special box with compartments to make sure no harm will come to Baby Jesus and Company. The box has been moved, dropped and squeezed but all has ended up OK.
This year I had a little harder time getting into the Xmas spirit but yesterday when I opened the box and placed the old scene on the Hi Fi Xmas was here. This season is so important to us as every member of our family will be together for a few days. Xmas day will have 21 of us around the table and when we devour the 30 lb turkey with trimmings and think of those who are no longer with us we will be thankful for a wonderful Family.
Our family began with we two and four little children. They in turn had 8 beautiful children and they brought more into our family. For me these are the best feelings I receive as the father of such a brood. What would Christmas be without this family bonding and a cementing of commitment to keep our family strong. Is not the Christmas season wonderful and magic .
We had a friend Arlyss who was into stained glass and usually gave or sold the first one made to us. He made angels of every variety, boats, flower plant holders and overhead light shades. All we're great but the nativity scene he gave us in 1978 was special. Every year I carefully pack it away to ensure it's safety. I have a special box with compartments to make sure no harm will come to Baby Jesus and Company. The box has been moved, dropped and squeezed but all has ended up OK.
This year I had a little harder time getting into the Xmas spirit but yesterday when I opened the box and placed the old scene on the Hi Fi Xmas was here. This season is so important to us as every member of our family will be together for a few days. Xmas day will have 21 of us around the table and when we devour the 30 lb turkey with trimmings and think of those who are no longer with us we will be thankful for a wonderful Family.
Our family began with we two and four little children. They in turn had 8 beautiful children and they brought more into our family. For me these are the best feelings I receive as the father of such a brood. What would Christmas be without this family bonding and a cementing of commitment to keep our family strong. Is not the Christmas season wonderful and magic .
Friday, December 17, 2010
Detroit Red Wings
I have been a faithful supporter of the Detroit Red Wings since 1947.In that year we used to listen to hockey broadcasts with our home made crystal sets. My brother Murray had the first crystal set in our house and showed me how to build and use this device. The reception on a clear winter night could have given this device it's name as it was crystal clear. The truth however is that the crystal gives life to the radio waves and in our mind magic.
Hockey games on the East Coast ofter were late as the hour different in time zone meant nearly midnight game endings. We would have our ear phones on and listened to the games without anyone knowing except we who had the earphones.
Detroit became my favourite team when a Maritimer named Hollett made the team and I never wavered since then. My friend from the Valley is also a believer and we have a mutual admiration society for the Wings. This year this well balanced team is leading the league it its division. We probably like the Wings because they keep their team together and have a balance between old veterans and new blood. They have without a doubt the best defence in the league made up pf one player approaching 44.
With the cooler weather and the world junior championships being played in Buffalo over the Xmas holidays how could you not get excited about Hockey. I believe that my loyalty to The Wings has kept me in good stead over the years as you learn to roll with the punches. Many years they were on top but some years they were rebuilding. I think they have some special source of power as depicted by this picture I caught the other day.
Hockey games on the East Coast ofter were late as the hour different in time zone meant nearly midnight game endings. We would have our ear phones on and listened to the games without anyone knowing except we who had the earphones.
Detroit became my favourite team when a Maritimer named Hollett made the team and I never wavered since then. My friend from the Valley is also a believer and we have a mutual admiration society for the Wings. This year this well balanced team is leading the league it its division. We probably like the Wings because they keep their team together and have a balance between old veterans and new blood. They have without a doubt the best defence in the league made up pf one player approaching 44.
With the cooler weather and the world junior championships being played in Buffalo over the Xmas holidays how could you not get excited about Hockey. I believe that my loyalty to The Wings has kept me in good stead over the years as you learn to roll with the punches. Many years they were on top but some years they were rebuilding. I think they have some special source of power as depicted by this picture I caught the other day.
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Frosty Welcome
As we prepared to leave Florida, the departure board read that a delay would keep us at the airport for an extra hour. Considering that you have to be available for all the formalities, it works out that we had something like 4 hours to kill. I read the papers left on the seats by departing travellers and even read USA Today. As the hour was late Monday, the air traffic was slow and there were few attractions to amuse disgruntled people, so the feelings were strained.As we prepared to leave we had a wheelchair to help Doris to the loading ramp. We were pushed to the head of the line all the way through customs, security and bypassed the lineups as we accompanied her. It did however, make our wait longer at the boarding area. Our flight was uneventful except for the landing where 30 to 40 mph winds bounced us around somewhat,
Our limousine took us to our door at the 2 am hour. Our driver was from Bosnia and chatted with us telling of his love for his new country, Canada. We tumbled into our house which had little welcome home signs and a full fridge. One sign was from a sick flower which proclaimed that its poor health was because it "missed it mom and dad" ... us.
After a quick sleep I awoke to a white, snowy wonderland. I took a few pictures and instantly realized how much I missed winter. We came home to a visit from the daughters and had the pleasure of sharing what we missed...family. Now there will be a flurry of doctor visits and other health concerns that will carry us through for the next while.
The things we take for granted as Canadians are so apparent when you are away for a while.
Monday, December 13, 2010
On Our Way Home
Waking up to a blustery day with wind and temperatures that will fall to freezing tonight makes me long for the snow and winter we expect when we get off our plane tonight at midnight. All day I have been a little depressed knowing that I could return to a dead garden. On the bright side I will be with friends and family for a while and maybe forget what might happen here.Since our flight is so late we will not get home until after midnight and we hope for a driveway that is clear and a warm house. My daughter makes sure we have supplies for the morning and so we can enjoy the early part of the day at home. Packing was a breeze this year as we travel a little lighter than we do when we drive.
Our neighbours came to wish us Merry Xmas and will keep an eye on our place when we are gone. Neighbour Watch is in effect in our area. Flying at night gives us the opportunity to catch up on a few winks on the way home. I will miss this good computer while away home but I shall try to catch up on my blogs in a few days.
Sunday, December 12, 2010
Frost Warnings
With frost warnings for the south west I have to prepare a defense against the enemy. Two massive cold waves have hit the USA in less than a week and has played havoc from the Arctic to Florida. The farmers here have battled the elements for years but the last three years have presented challenges never seen before. It seems the every wave of Canadian cold breaks new ground and records tumble. This Sunday, Monday and Tuesday will bring temperatures in the twenties in the interior and low thirties along the coast.I am taking no chances so I went to Home Depot and purchased materials to build a frost barrier. After a few hours of work I have a covered garden complete with sprinkler system to take care of my tender vegetables when I am away. I had the misfortune of losing all my above crops last year as well as the bananas and papaya's. I was able to replant but the season was shortened and I was unable to benefit from the produce.
Mother Nature constantly reminds us of her power and we must work with her to be in tune with our environment and be successful.
Early Xmas in Florida
Because we have our real Xmas back home in Canada we have a mini Xmas here. As many gifts are shared it would be impossible or ridiculous to take them home only to bring them back in a few weeks. We have a happy hour and exchange our personal gifts here. It has become a tradition and it gets us in the Christmas spirit.We have our decorations around the house and our home made star in the lanai and with the Xmas music playing everywhere you go you become totally immersed in the spirit. My surprise gift this year came on Black Friday when the girls gave me a new ride on lawn mower. It was very appropriate and our yard and lawns reflect the care given by this mechanical wonder.
The girls were showered with clothes and of course for Doris candy for her sweet tooth.With all the fuss and attempts to make it real the missing component was family to share the excitement and happiness of the moment. We are fortunate as we have a second chance in the next few days to experience that special feeling when we will be home with family. This was just a rehearsal for the real thing.
Friday, December 10, 2010
When is a Bargain Not a Bargain
Theresa's car gets a visit to the garage every year in spite of the fact she drives less than 1000 miles each year. Her car is a convenience and takes her to her hair appointments , local malls and anywhere else shopping promises some good fun and good prices. Her car sits in the garage all summer and when we return we start it up and away she goes. Sitting in the garage all summer is not good for the car so we have it checked. This year we neglected to do this and I realized the tires looked soft and the car did not seem right.
I told Theresa that I would look after this but before I had a chance she produced three coupons for a special 34 point checkup and an oil change for $22, $19.99 and $24.95. I left to get the job done and arrived at the first bargain deal and found the garage closed for the day. The second one called Duffy's had 6 bays and seemed busy. I pulled in and registered my needs. After answering all my personal history I turned over the keys and was asked to take a seat.
Before I had a chance to ask how long it would take my car was whisked into an empty bay. I was offered coffee, cookies and magazines so I felt that this was going to be a while. Entering the waiting room half a dozen people sat looking at nothing in particular I broke the silence by saying hi and received no response. These folks were unhappy about something so I tried again. What do you think about the tax breaks to wealthy people? All heads turned and I realized I hit a nerve. The Democrats in the group dove in defending the deal and the President, and the Republicans were loud in proclaiming what a #$%$$#@ jerk we had as President.
I declared I was from Canada and they all agreed I was a socialist and the talk turned to all that was nasty about our country and blamed us for everything including the weather. The conversation cooled and after we all filled our cups with coffee we began to look for a better conversation. There were even some compliments about Canada although none had ever been to Canada but they knew it was cold and we had a good health plan.
A man came into the shop and declared that he had the oil changed less than an hour ago and his car burned up the engine because the oil plug was missing. We all looked at each other and the manager whisked the customer into his office where a heated debate was heard by all of us through paper thin walls. My car was now being serviced and I was about to go out to check the oil plug but a large sign said no one was allowed on the work area.
Finally I was called up to the desk and presented with a bill for $42. I questioned it and gave the coupon but he said that Caddies took 7 quarts of oil and there was an added cost. I just wanted to get out of there so I paid the bill. The manager tried to hide his stress so gave all of us a free next oil change.
Leaving the garage and driving to my next stop I realized that sometimes a bargain is not really a bargain.
I told Theresa that I would look after this but before I had a chance she produced three coupons for a special 34 point checkup and an oil change for $22, $19.99 and $24.95. I left to get the job done and arrived at the first bargain deal and found the garage closed for the day. The second one called Duffy's had 6 bays and seemed busy. I pulled in and registered my needs. After answering all my personal history I turned over the keys and was asked to take a seat.
Before I had a chance to ask how long it would take my car was whisked into an empty bay. I was offered coffee, cookies and magazines so I felt that this was going to be a while. Entering the waiting room half a dozen people sat looking at nothing in particular I broke the silence by saying hi and received no response. These folks were unhappy about something so I tried again. What do you think about the tax breaks to wealthy people? All heads turned and I realized I hit a nerve. The Democrats in the group dove in defending the deal and the President, and the Republicans were loud in proclaiming what a #$%$$#@ jerk we had as President.
I declared I was from Canada and they all agreed I was a socialist and the talk turned to all that was nasty about our country and blamed us for everything including the weather. The conversation cooled and after we all filled our cups with coffee we began to look for a better conversation. There were even some compliments about Canada although none had ever been to Canada but they knew it was cold and we had a good health plan.
A man came into the shop and declared that he had the oil changed less than an hour ago and his car burned up the engine because the oil plug was missing. We all looked at each other and the manager whisked the customer into his office where a heated debate was heard by all of us through paper thin walls. My car was now being serviced and I was about to go out to check the oil plug but a large sign said no one was allowed on the work area.
Finally I was called up to the desk and presented with a bill for $42. I questioned it and gave the coupon but he said that Caddies took 7 quarts of oil and there was an added cost. I just wanted to get out of there so I paid the bill. The manager tried to hide his stress so gave all of us a free next oil change.
Leaving the garage and driving to my next stop I realized that sometimes a bargain is not really a bargain.
Thursday, December 9, 2010
What Is Wrong With This Picture?
Some ten years ago when the government of the USA had a balanced budget President Bush and Congress gave the American people a tax cut. The tax break was substantial and gave benefits to all taxpayers. These tax cuts were continued until December 31,2010. President Obama promised to remove these tax breaks for the wealthy but continue them for the middle class.
However the Republican"s wanted to continue the tax breaks for all. This would cost many dollars and dollars that are not in the budget. It would mean that the lowering of taxes would have to be paid from borrowed money. This would raise the deficit in a time when all politicians stated that debt control and jobs were critical to the healthy economic future of the country.
It is beyond my ability to understand the sense of this decision which has to get approval from the house to become law. The extension is for two more years and has earmarks on the legislation . One earmark would extend the unemployment benefits for 13 more months. The economics of this lowering of taxes has me worried. Help...What is wrong with this picture?
However the Republican"s wanted to continue the tax breaks for all. This would cost many dollars and dollars that are not in the budget. It would mean that the lowering of taxes would have to be paid from borrowed money. This would raise the deficit in a time when all politicians stated that debt control and jobs were critical to the healthy economic future of the country.
It is beyond my ability to understand the sense of this decision which has to get approval from the house to become law. The extension is for two more years and has earmarks on the legislation . One earmark would extend the unemployment benefits for 13 more months. The economics of this lowering of taxes has me worried. Help...What is wrong with this picture?
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
December 8 Frost in Florida
Canadians get blamed for many things here in Florida but this week there was a number of radio and TV stations blaming us for the frosty weather. Last year we experienced some of the coldest nights on record for January and February. This year it is only December 8Th and we have heavy ground frost and record breaking cold. We just finished the warmest month on record in November and on the first day of December all hell broke loose. Farmers, fishermen and tourists are being treated to temperatures in the thirties and in some areas twenties.So much much for bragging about my special garden this year as I am losing sleep trying to keep my vegetable garden watered and covered to protect it from the cold. It was cold enough to write on the ice covered windshield and the hose was frozen although the temperature was 37 degrees.
Since I will be away for the Xmas holiday I will have to be careful to make a permanent structure over the tended vegetables. Who said it never gets cold in the sunny paradise called Florida. This cold snap showed frigid temperatures from the high Arctic to Cuba. Yes even Cuba had cold weather but not cold by our standards.
This morning our bird watering station was frozen and the cats were licking the ice to get a drink. We took a few pictures and after 9 in the morning we were back to near normal with a 30 degree temperature change. Life can be interesting when Mother Nature shows her claws and teaches us not to take anything for granted. The saying here is , Where is this global warming ?
Monday, December 6, 2010
Skype
Most people do not get excited with some of the modern technology but I for one am amazed at most if not all the new communication technology. As one who had limited experience with computers in the workplace other than as a retrieval service now feel lost if I don't use some form or another every day.
I was introduced to Skype when we bought a new computer and it came with a built in camera and other features that were new to me. With the help of my literate grand daughter we managed to set me up and I have been excited about it every day since. Through this media I have really connected with a long time friend from across Canada to the back woods of Cape Breton . My friend has Skype and now we are able to actually have conversations with a picture to match.
The extra connection makes our long range conversations come alive and more frequent. It is amazing to me that we have come this far so quickly and that older people like me have embraced the technology. Yes there are a few that say they will never use or need a computer but that is because they fear failure so run away. For the many who now use the latest devices it has enriched their lives and brings the whole world into focus. For the ones who have lost their mobility the Internet becomes their way of experiencing life vicariously.
The only problem with Skype is that you have to make sure you are properly dressed and for the ladies to make sure their lipstick is on straight. For all the people who made these magical miracles reality I salute you for making life just a whole lot better for all of us.
I was introduced to Skype when we bought a new computer and it came with a built in camera and other features that were new to me. With the help of my literate grand daughter we managed to set me up and I have been excited about it every day since. Through this media I have really connected with a long time friend from across Canada to the back woods of Cape Breton . My friend has Skype and now we are able to actually have conversations with a picture to match.
The extra connection makes our long range conversations come alive and more frequent. It is amazing to me that we have come this far so quickly and that older people like me have embraced the technology. Yes there are a few that say they will never use or need a computer but that is because they fear failure so run away. For the many who now use the latest devices it has enriched their lives and brings the whole world into focus. For the ones who have lost their mobility the Internet becomes their way of experiencing life vicariously.
The only problem with Skype is that you have to make sure you are properly dressed and for the ladies to make sure their lipstick is on straight. For all the people who made these magical miracles reality I salute you for making life just a whole lot better for all of us.
Friday, December 3, 2010
Dec 3, 2010
This morning Theresa took a few pictures of our yard and garden and I was impressed with the show of colour. We have a watering system which provides plenty of moisture for even the most needy vegetation. However a cold front moved through on the first day of December and everything burst forward at a fantastic rate.The rain lasted less than half an hour and was accompanied by heavy wind. It was only the second rain we had since coming down and was welcomed. It was the banana tree that made the big jump followed by the beans. After a good start everything in the garden remained much the same until this burst of energy in the form of warm rain.
We watch the changes in our vegetation daily and are amazed how it responds to its environment. Since we are totally organic and just use compost and manure for plant nourishment some of the results do not look like items you buy in the supermarket unless you pay more and buy from the ever increasing organic section..People are changing their ways and expecting more from their produce. Efforts are being made to clean up our food and that is a good thing.
Our family is becoming more and more aware of what we eat and are trying to support the green and organic programs. My regret at this time is that much of our produce will be ready to eat while we are on vacation up north.
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Cold Wind From The North
The bad weather experienced in north eastern USA and Canada arrived in Florida in time for the first of December. Mother nature was telling us it was indeed winter back home and sent us the little message so we could adjust to the weather we experience when returning home for Xmas. It was a shock to wake up to temperatures in the high forties and in some areas high thirties.
Up to the last day of November we had hot weather about 6 to 10 degrees above average. On Dec.1 the workers coming for our recycling were wearing clothes we would wear when it is 20 degrees below zero. Many people here are from the Islands and any weather that is even cool puts them in a winter mode. As we keep our pool open all winter and swim every day the locals think we are strange but then they realize we are Canadians.
I find the winter weather here ideal for all outside activities and biking, fishing and gardening are all good to go . This cooler weather makes us feel like we are in a Christmas mode and all we would need is a little snow. Entering all stores and public places the Xmas music is blaring but it hard for us to feel the spirit until we have the appropriate weather.
Every time we call or Skype , the first question is how is the weather. We look forward to feeling that cool or cold air on our arrival up there. On many vacant lots here Xmas trees are being sold. Many people who are formerly from the northern climate feel better when they take home a real tree and smell the fresh fragrance of a real spruce or pine tree.
So December has welcomed us in a true northern manner so all we have to do is act like we have been given the signal to start thinking Christmas.
Up to the last day of November we had hot weather about 6 to 10 degrees above average. On Dec.1 the workers coming for our recycling were wearing clothes we would wear when it is 20 degrees below zero. Many people here are from the Islands and any weather that is even cool puts them in a winter mode. As we keep our pool open all winter and swim every day the locals think we are strange but then they realize we are Canadians.
I find the winter weather here ideal for all outside activities and biking, fishing and gardening are all good to go . This cooler weather makes us feel like we are in a Christmas mode and all we would need is a little snow. Entering all stores and public places the Xmas music is blaring but it hard for us to feel the spirit until we have the appropriate weather.
Every time we call or Skype , the first question is how is the weather. We look forward to feeling that cool or cold air on our arrival up there. On many vacant lots here Xmas trees are being sold. Many people who are formerly from the northern climate feel better when they take home a real tree and smell the fresh fragrance of a real spruce or pine tree.
So December has welcomed us in a true northern manner so all we have to do is act like we have been given the signal to start thinking Christmas.
Christmas
It was only officially recognized as a holiday in the USA years after Thanksgiving because it was thought to be too sacred a day to celebrate it except as a church going celebration. Thanksgiving was recognized by Congress earlier but the day was December 18th. Christmas remained as a religious celebration for years until we began to commercialize it and make it what it is today. Most people still understand the significance of this day but Christmas has become a time of many types of recognition.
With the introduction of Santa, gift giving and family get togethers, it is the special day for many in the whole year. In simpler times like when I was a child we looked forward to Xmas for weeks ahead. There was great emphasis in church and school about the Christmas Story and everything and it was meant as a religious celebration. It held however, special memories of home and family. Weeks ahead Mom would bake her light and dark fruit cake and carefully wrap it in special cloth and place it in a crock until Xmas. Home made mincemeat would be bottled, ready for those special pies and tarts which again were symbols of Xmas.
Our father would disappear to his work station in the garage only to display his handwork at Xmas. Home made gifts were common and expected. We as children would write on paper what we would like Santa to bring to us and we would wait until a hot fire was burning in the kitchen stove and one after the other we would toss in our wish list and watch it go up in smoke. Somehow Santa was to get the message and fill the orders.
Rumors would circulate in our home that Santa was watching us and we had to be good. If we were not we could be missed on Xmas morning or at least have a bag of coal placed in our stocking. I had coal in my stocking every year I think. We tried to get a big sock to hang up but it did not matter as each of us got the same thing. In our home everyone received an orange, an apple, grapes wrapped in tissue paper and hard candy. The hard candy was all colours and some was called ribbon candy. The special treat was the little bag of mixed nuts, Brazil, hazel and almonds. When we picked up our socks at the same time we always acted surprised and then the lessons of sharing and breaking the nuts with only two hammers when there was a dozen of us was fun. We never had a nut cracker.
We expected and received one gift along with a few smaller items shared among family members. We all saved and bought Mom and Dad gifts. For Dad, it was pipe tobacco or a pipe and little items he liked. For Mom it was chocolates , handkerchiefs or perfume. One year I gave my Mom two tiny vases which were hand painted and from Japan. I bought them at the 5 and ten for 15 cents each. Mom kept them and when she passed away my father gave them back to me. I treasured them and passed them on to my younger sister as she wanted a memory item of Mom. I recently saw a pair of these same vases at a yard sale and was tempted to buy them but I did not.
Besides fattening up the chickens for dinner dad would get some special foods and pop to make the day special. Dad would go to the local pop maker and get several cases of mixed drinks. My favourite was iron brew but we all had our special flavours met .Our house was invaded by friends ,uncles , neighbours and excited children showing off what Santa had brought. Later we would go skating on the pond right next to our home and have fun with all the local people. Home for the Xmas feast where Mom could produce six drumsticks from two hens and we all praised everything that was served and enjoyed the bounty rarely seen except on Christmas.
For us Christmas was family, and it still is.
With the introduction of Santa, gift giving and family get togethers, it is the special day for many in the whole year. In simpler times like when I was a child we looked forward to Xmas for weeks ahead. There was great emphasis in church and school about the Christmas Story and everything and it was meant as a religious celebration. It held however, special memories of home and family. Weeks ahead Mom would bake her light and dark fruit cake and carefully wrap it in special cloth and place it in a crock until Xmas. Home made mincemeat would be bottled, ready for those special pies and tarts which again were symbols of Xmas.
Our father would disappear to his work station in the garage only to display his handwork at Xmas. Home made gifts were common and expected. We as children would write on paper what we would like Santa to bring to us and we would wait until a hot fire was burning in the kitchen stove and one after the other we would toss in our wish list and watch it go up in smoke. Somehow Santa was to get the message and fill the orders.
Rumors would circulate in our home that Santa was watching us and we had to be good. If we were not we could be missed on Xmas morning or at least have a bag of coal placed in our stocking. I had coal in my stocking every year I think. We tried to get a big sock to hang up but it did not matter as each of us got the same thing. In our home everyone received an orange, an apple, grapes wrapped in tissue paper and hard candy. The hard candy was all colours and some was called ribbon candy. The special treat was the little bag of mixed nuts, Brazil, hazel and almonds. When we picked up our socks at the same time we always acted surprised and then the lessons of sharing and breaking the nuts with only two hammers when there was a dozen of us was fun. We never had a nut cracker.
We expected and received one gift along with a few smaller items shared among family members. We all saved and bought Mom and Dad gifts. For Dad, it was pipe tobacco or a pipe and little items he liked. For Mom it was chocolates , handkerchiefs or perfume. One year I gave my Mom two tiny vases which were hand painted and from Japan. I bought them at the 5 and ten for 15 cents each. Mom kept them and when she passed away my father gave them back to me. I treasured them and passed them on to my younger sister as she wanted a memory item of Mom. I recently saw a pair of these same vases at a yard sale and was tempted to buy them but I did not.
Besides fattening up the chickens for dinner dad would get some special foods and pop to make the day special. Dad would go to the local pop maker and get several cases of mixed drinks. My favourite was iron brew but we all had our special flavours met .Our house was invaded by friends ,uncles , neighbours and excited children showing off what Santa had brought. Later we would go skating on the pond right next to our home and have fun with all the local people. Home for the Xmas feast where Mom could produce six drumsticks from two hens and we all praised everything that was served and enjoyed the bounty rarely seen except on Christmas.
For us Christmas was family, and it still is.
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Winter Golf
Since the weather is extremely hot during the summer months in Florida, winter golf is the way to go. The days are shorter so we don't start until 7am. The coolness of the morning sometimes requires a sweater or light jacket but by 9am you are back to normal with temperatures of 75-80. The snowbirds usually crowd the courses and of course the prices to play go way up.In the summer and fall golf is an inexpensive sport but come December to May prices double or triple. Our 27 hole course is minutes from our home and is kept in mint condition. It is home to hundreds of birds and some snakes and alligators. The eagle and osprey nest nearby and the shore and wading birds abound in the shallow lakes which are a feature on nearly every hole.Since we are creatures of habit we play with the same people every week and socialize with the whole group on the 19Th hole.
Very few of our group could be considered great golfers but we manage to have respectable scores.The more serious people manage to stick together but for us the exercise and fun is the main purpose.We do play for a small financial reward every week and the money is usually spread around. On a good day you might win $30 but on most days you will not be in the money.Golf is a wonderful way to use three or four hours every week and our wives encourage us to attend to get us out of their hair.
Florida is a good place to live during the winter months but golf makes it a great place to live anytime.
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
A New Toy
Every so often we buy new toys to keep us interested in our daily tasks. This week we purchased a new toy to make my job of keeping our property well tended and beautiful. It arrived right on time and the two men who unloaded it were careful to make sure I knew how to drive the machine. Even thought they saw my old one they insisted that I attend this twenty minute learning session..
I was surprised what I learned and appreciated the help they gave. They told me that many people are injured in the first minutes of operating a new machine. I was not proud and listened attentively although I was wishing to get a tryout on my new toy. When they left I had Doris and Theresa come out for a photo op and they co-operated with me .
After the pics I mowed the entire yard in about 25 minutes. What a difference and what a surprise to have this new toy to help me have fun while working. The picture of the lady is my mother in law who is 93 and wanted to take the machine for a spin.
I was surprised what I learned and appreciated the help they gave. They told me that many people are injured in the first minutes of operating a new machine. I was not proud and listened attentively although I was wishing to get a tryout on my new toy. When they left I had Doris and Theresa come out for a photo op and they co-operated with me .
After the pics I mowed the entire yard in about 25 minutes. What a difference and what a surprise to have this new toy to help me have fun while working. The picture of the lady is my mother in law who is 93 and wanted to take the machine for a spin.
Monday, November 29, 2010
Early Morning Visitors
Frequently we have the good fortune to be visited by birds. Since we have giant red pine trees close by they become the roosting places for birds. Ibis's large and small pass over our home every day and sometimes they land. We get the opportunity to observe them closeup. This am these birds perched in the highest branches of this magnificent pine.
One morning our neighbor's house was literally covered by Egrets (cattle). These medium sized birds follow the city's large mowers as they cut the grass on vacant lots. This practise stirs up bugs and insects and the Egrets in large numbers have a feast. It is nature's way of controlling the numerous insects which live in Florida. We rarely see a mosquito or house fly due to an aggressive insect control program. This program is mainly followed during the rainy summer months.
This morning also began another interesting item as one of our banana trees sprouted a large flower which will become a bunch of bananas in a few months. It was only last February that all of our banana trees were destroyed by frost. We hope to see these bananas grow to maturity and we are able to eat these small, delicious fruit called Apple Bananas.
Tomorrow will be the last official day for hurricane season. This year there were 14 hurricanes identified in the Atlantic and not one made a landfall on USA soil. We are thankful. Canada, specially Newfoundland bore the brunt of many powerful storms which caused expensive damage to the infrastructure of that province. Two weeks from now we will once again be in our home in Canada and look forward to some snow and cold weather.
One morning our neighbor's house was literally covered by Egrets (cattle). These medium sized birds follow the city's large mowers as they cut the grass on vacant lots. This practise stirs up bugs and insects and the Egrets in large numbers have a feast. It is nature's way of controlling the numerous insects which live in Florida. We rarely see a mosquito or house fly due to an aggressive insect control program. This program is mainly followed during the rainy summer months.
This morning also began another interesting item as one of our banana trees sprouted a large flower which will become a bunch of bananas in a few months. It was only last February that all of our banana trees were destroyed by frost. We hope to see these bananas grow to maturity and we are able to eat these small, delicious fruit called Apple Bananas.
Tomorrow will be the last official day for hurricane season. This year there were 14 hurricanes identified in the Atlantic and not one made a landfall on USA soil. We are thankful. Canada, specially Newfoundland bore the brunt of many powerful storms which caused expensive damage to the infrastructure of that province. Two weeks from now we will once again be in our home in Canada and look forward to some snow and cold weather.
Saturday, November 27, 2010
Good News
Thanksgiving day and the few days afterwards mark a bench mark for the economy. For the last few years it has been bad news as the economy shrunk and sales were down. This year the people came out in droves ready to buy and all reports show a growth in numbers and value. As snowbirds make up a large part of the economy here in Florida there appears to be more and earlier numbers this year. We notice the licence plates have changed from Florida to every state in the union and Canada.
The roads are busy, lineups at restaurants and super stores are growing and there are smiles on the faces of clerks and owners. The Target Store opened at 4am yesterday and there were almost a 1000 people lined up at 4am, Crowds at JJgregs was blocks long and customers were happy with the discounted prices. For the sports people there were 800 people waiting for the opening at Bass Pro Shop and owners were saying it was the best year in the past 5 years.
I guess what I am saying is that maybe the depression, not recession is slowly coming to an end. It is my deep belief that it will not happen again because this generation will have learned a good lesson. Back in the thirties with the great depression a generation of careful people resulted an the recovery was sure and steady. I believe that the same thing might occur and we will experience a generation of careful stewards of our economy.
If individuals take responsibility for their own life then collectively we will have a better world and maybe even the governments will be able to act in like manner.
The roads are busy, lineups at restaurants and super stores are growing and there are smiles on the faces of clerks and owners. The Target Store opened at 4am yesterday and there were almost a 1000 people lined up at 4am, Crowds at JJgregs was blocks long and customers were happy with the discounted prices. For the sports people there were 800 people waiting for the opening at Bass Pro Shop and owners were saying it was the best year in the past 5 years.
I guess what I am saying is that maybe the depression, not recession is slowly coming to an end. It is my deep belief that it will not happen again because this generation will have learned a good lesson. Back in the thirties with the great depression a generation of careful people resulted an the recovery was sure and steady. I believe that the same thing might occur and we will experience a generation of careful stewards of our economy.
If individuals take responsibility for their own life then collectively we will have a better world and maybe even the governments will be able to act in like manner.
Friday, November 26, 2010
Black Friday
The day after USA Thanksgiving has been called Black Friday. This starts the Christmas shopping season. Nearly every place of business has special sales and for the early bird there is a good opportunity to cop a bargain. We were in the mood to buy a new power mower as ours was in need of repairs and buying a new one made sense.
We buy many large items at Sears because they stand behind their products. We shopped around and came to the conclusion they had the best prices. The salesman told us some weeks ago to wait as the mower we desired was coming on sale at great savings.
In the meantime I thought we could make it through another year with hand mowing but Theresa and Doris saw this add and decided to give me an early Xmas gift. The deal was that I would have to get up at 2 am to get in line at Sears to get one of a few on sale. As it turned out Theresa and I went together and as the store opened at 4 am we left our house at 3am.
On entering the parking lot we viewed a huge line of people at the main door. We would probably number over 300. We did get in line but observed men pushing the lawn mowers out for display. At Theresa's urging I went to ask how many mowers were available. I also asked if these doors would be open to the public. Being given a positive answer I motioned for Theresa to join me and she was quickly followed by a rush of people lining up after us. Immediately we were number 1 and by good fortune the secondary door led right to the machine I wished to purchase.
The door opened exactly at 4 am and we had our purchase completed less than ten minutes later. We bought a 20 hp Craftsman mower at a saving of $614.00. This was a good deal for us and maybe next year I will be encouraged to participate in this Black Friday frenzy.
Normally our little city is asleep until 7 am or so but on this day the streets were filled and every store had a waiting line. Officially Black Friday starts at midnight and this year many stores opened their doors at that time or soon after. The merchants are looking for a good shopping season and if this morning is any indicator it will be.
We buy many large items at Sears because they stand behind their products. We shopped around and came to the conclusion they had the best prices. The salesman told us some weeks ago to wait as the mower we desired was coming on sale at great savings.
In the meantime I thought we could make it through another year with hand mowing but Theresa and Doris saw this add and decided to give me an early Xmas gift. The deal was that I would have to get up at 2 am to get in line at Sears to get one of a few on sale. As it turned out Theresa and I went together and as the store opened at 4 am we left our house at 3am.
On entering the parking lot we viewed a huge line of people at the main door. We would probably number over 300. We did get in line but observed men pushing the lawn mowers out for display. At Theresa's urging I went to ask how many mowers were available. I also asked if these doors would be open to the public. Being given a positive answer I motioned for Theresa to join me and she was quickly followed by a rush of people lining up after us. Immediately we were number 1 and by good fortune the secondary door led right to the machine I wished to purchase.
The door opened exactly at 4 am and we had our purchase completed less than ten minutes later. We bought a 20 hp Craftsman mower at a saving of $614.00. This was a good deal for us and maybe next year I will be encouraged to participate in this Black Friday frenzy.
Normally our little city is asleep until 7 am or so but on this day the streets were filled and every store had a waiting line. Officially Black Friday starts at midnight and this year many stores opened their doors at that time or soon after. The merchants are looking for a good shopping season and if this morning is any indicator it will be.
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Thanksgiving in Paradise
As Theresa and I sit beside our pool this thanksgiving morning we feel lucky to have two days to give special thanks for all the good things in our family's life. While much of the country is in snow and freezing rain we swelter in 80 plus heat with not a cloud in the sky. We are so thankful for the opportunity to experience this weather because it has so much impact on my health. I am sure Doris and Theresa feel the same way.
Here I view the conditions in the State of Florida where 18 million people live and come from all over the world. During the past weeks service providers scrambled to get resources to feed the hungry on Thanksgiving day. The lineups at the food banks have never been longer and the shelves more bare. Some 11% of the people are out of work and soon out of programs to provide basic needs. What is wrong with this picture ?
In a land that can land a man on the moon, provide policing around the world in dangerous places, offer tremendous help to Haiti and a dozen other countries but practice deficit budgeting which eats up nearly 40% of its taxes just servicing the debt makes it impossible to bring America back to its former self. On this Thanksgiving I am happy to benefit from all the good stuff but have a guilt complex for the poor and needy. Hopefully this next year will be better and when we sit down for our turkey dinner more people will share in the plenty and America will be a better place for all of us .
On a very personal note I wish to express my most sincere desire for all people to share and experience the joy that comes from living in the wonderful countries like Canada and the United States who provide the democratic environment for a better world.
Here I view the conditions in the State of Florida where 18 million people live and come from all over the world. During the past weeks service providers scrambled to get resources to feed the hungry on Thanksgiving day. The lineups at the food banks have never been longer and the shelves more bare. Some 11% of the people are out of work and soon out of programs to provide basic needs. What is wrong with this picture ?
In a land that can land a man on the moon, provide policing around the world in dangerous places, offer tremendous help to Haiti and a dozen other countries but practice deficit budgeting which eats up nearly 40% of its taxes just servicing the debt makes it impossible to bring America back to its former self. On this Thanksgiving I am happy to benefit from all the good stuff but have a guilt complex for the poor and needy. Hopefully this next year will be better and when we sit down for our turkey dinner more people will share in the plenty and America will be a better place for all of us .
On a very personal note I wish to express my most sincere desire for all people to share and experience the joy that comes from living in the wonderful countries like Canada and the United States who provide the democratic environment for a better world.
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Going Back In Time
Yesterday while resting after golf with a cold glass of ice water and sitting by the pool with my mind wandering under the 80 degree temperature I thought of a friend I grew up with in Cape Breton. Being somewhat impulsive and the phone within easy reach I dialed the number to talk to my friend. There was a quick response and a little hesitation as his wife was somewhat unfamiliar with my voice so I announced myself and engaged her in a short conversation.
As she handed the phone to TV, the initials of my friend, my mind raced back 60 years ago when we used to live close enough to yell across the road to communicate. After a few pleasant remarks we immediately began to reminisce about the past. All matters of that time are crystal clear to both of us and we rushed to the fishing, the biking and the close relationship we had. As young people of that day we had little canned entertainment but we were never without something to do. Besides chores we filled our moments living in a make believe world. We were Indians. We had made bows, arrows, quivers and spears to a high level. We literally lived in the woods down by the big pond and built huts which served as our headquarters.
The making of bows almost did my friend in as one day he and I were getting together and I had a new bow. I also had a tipped arrow and we were pretty good shots but what happened should never have come to pass. My friend was standing at the basement door which was open just a little. In jest I suggested I could shoot an arrow through that door with no trouble. There was a challenge and I placed the arrow in the bow and let fly. Foolish to be sure but the deed was done and for the first time I could remember the arrow flew true and was headed for my friend. At the last minute he turned his head and the arrow caught him behind the ear.
I was shocked and so was he but he was able to recover quickly with a little help. It was one of those moments that bonded us for all time. We both laugh now but realize the foolish act could have ended in tragedy. Over the years from very young until we went our special ways we never had an angry word nor a conflict. We did so much together and all was about nature and the out of doors. Years later when I met TV in Toronto where he was serving as an RCMP Officer we were able to talk but we always expressed feelings the great childhood we had together. We never smoked, drank nor even heard about drugs but we new every bird, how to fish and appreciate the wonders of nature.
We hung up after an hour and are going to connect more often on SKYPE in the future. As much as I love the past I live in the future and as friends we expect our lives to get better as we age but it is fun going back in time.
As she handed the phone to TV, the initials of my friend, my mind raced back 60 years ago when we used to live close enough to yell across the road to communicate. After a few pleasant remarks we immediately began to reminisce about the past. All matters of that time are crystal clear to both of us and we rushed to the fishing, the biking and the close relationship we had. As young people of that day we had little canned entertainment but we were never without something to do. Besides chores we filled our moments living in a make believe world. We were Indians. We had made bows, arrows, quivers and spears to a high level. We literally lived in the woods down by the big pond and built huts which served as our headquarters.
The making of bows almost did my friend in as one day he and I were getting together and I had a new bow. I also had a tipped arrow and we were pretty good shots but what happened should never have come to pass. My friend was standing at the basement door which was open just a little. In jest I suggested I could shoot an arrow through that door with no trouble. There was a challenge and I placed the arrow in the bow and let fly. Foolish to be sure but the deed was done and for the first time I could remember the arrow flew true and was headed for my friend. At the last minute he turned his head and the arrow caught him behind the ear.
I was shocked and so was he but he was able to recover quickly with a little help. It was one of those moments that bonded us for all time. We both laugh now but realize the foolish act could have ended in tragedy. Over the years from very young until we went our special ways we never had an angry word nor a conflict. We did so much together and all was about nature and the out of doors. Years later when I met TV in Toronto where he was serving as an RCMP Officer we were able to talk but we always expressed feelings the great childhood we had together. We never smoked, drank nor even heard about drugs but we new every bird, how to fish and appreciate the wonders of nature.
We hung up after an hour and are going to connect more often on SKYPE in the future. As much as I love the past I live in the future and as friends we expect our lives to get better as we age but it is fun going back in time.
Monday, November 22, 2010
Fall Cleanup
Having lived in this home for 8 full seasons we collected a lot of junk. We also filled our garage with useful things like mowers, four bikes, golf clubs and every kind of gardening tool. The floor has been painted four times in part but not all at once. It became a patchwork floor so I decided to get to work and clean it up.
It is amazing the things you come across when you empty the entire contents on the driveway. We started with putting our three garbage and recycling bins close at hand. Anything that we have not used in a year or two we examined and either kept or threw in the appropriate bin. The bins were quickly filled and we still had more. Some good things that could be reused I place at the edge of the driveway and they disappear overnight.
To cover up the patchwork floor I went to Home Depot and bought this paint that was supposed to be a one application product. For the price I thought it was worth it but I bought two gallons to give the traffic areas several coats and have some left for touch ups.
I put off doing this chore for a while but when the task was completed I felt so good. The garage looked so pristine and there were some empty spaces for more future treasures. I cannot wait to go home and perform the same task in my other garage which is stuffed with all kinds of things I do not need. I make a vow to never let my garages get cluttered again. I will have to train the ladies to refrain from throwing everything they don't need or use in our garage.
It is amazing the things you come across when you empty the entire contents on the driveway. We started with putting our three garbage and recycling bins close at hand. Anything that we have not used in a year or two we examined and either kept or threw in the appropriate bin. The bins were quickly filled and we still had more. Some good things that could be reused I place at the edge of the driveway and they disappear overnight.
To cover up the patchwork floor I went to Home Depot and bought this paint that was supposed to be a one application product. For the price I thought it was worth it but I bought two gallons to give the traffic areas several coats and have some left for touch ups.
I put off doing this chore for a while but when the task was completed I felt so good. The garage looked so pristine and there were some empty spaces for more future treasures. I cannot wait to go home and perform the same task in my other garage which is stuffed with all kinds of things I do not need. I make a vow to never let my garages get cluttered again. I will have to train the ladies to refrain from throwing everything they don't need or use in our garage.
Friday, November 19, 2010
My Arctic Cabin
Sometimes we get a picture in our mind of a special place or a special song that will not go away.For me one of these special things is my Arctic Cabin. While living in the high Arctic I had time on my hands and decided to start a project which would give me pleasure and leave me with a feeling of accomplishment.There was so much open space on Victoria Island that location for such a project became a problem. I wanted a place to go on the weekends and spare evenings where my dog could run loose and I could fish or hunt to my hearts content. I found such a place about 15 kms north of Ikaluktutiak on a rise on the shores of Grenier Lake. There was water everywhere but this location was a watershed lake/river and carried all the water from the interior to the North West Passage.
Materials were costly in the North so I devised a plan to accumulate wood and plywood from the local dump. For months I attended the dump and recycled timbers and plywood from packing boxes and piled them in my back yard. By winter time I had enough of everything to start my project. Local contractors called me to give me left over roofing materials and insulation in such quantities that I had to build a shed to take care of these valuable resources.
During the first freeze up I began to take these materials to my building site on my kamituk or sled. It did not take long before I had everything in place. I drew up plans for a 24 by 18 foot Arctic cabin. I waited for spring and began to build. Locals told me information vital for a successful build; air tight, well insulated, strong footings with a good small cook stove. I listened and was able to complete the first half by mid summer. I received some help from friends who came to visit me and the rafters for the other half were put in place before they returned home.
My friends had a few laughs over the construction and I wish they had returned to see the complete work. This cabin became my place of solitude. It was here I heard silence, the sound of caribou hoofs from a distance, the rush of muskoxen as they ran over the rocks and the quiet stealth of Arctic wolves tracking their prey.
I had time to sort out my mind and realize who I was and I found all that out on the tundra. There were so many memories stored in my minds eye from the few years up there that I only have to close my eyes to gain a panorama view of the way it was. When I moved from that area and travelled nearly 3000 miles to my next Arctic home I had the intention of repeating history and building a similar retreat there.
It never happened and that was a good thing, because no place I could build would replace my Arctic cabin and what it meant to me. Freedom... from stress and the difficulties I was encountering during those troubled years.
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Humorous Event
Here in Cape Coral we have a council which was voted in last year and has divided itself into two camps. One consists of the mayor and four councillors who are known as the fab five and four others. The fab five always vote as a block and control every aspect of the business transacted. The mayor and council are updating the rules of order and are stuck on the type of prayer which should precede the business of the day. Our mayor introduced the idea that instead they should have a large copy of the ten commandments placed at the entrance of the council chambers. This would inspire the council members to a high standard.
You can imagine what an uproar this caused and the news media had a field day with the idea. They have pretty well settled this matter after a public outcry but are still concerned over the matter of a silent or verbal invocation at the beginning of council. Perhaps they should just tend to business and stay out of a field that is completely foreign to them. It makes for good comic relief.
Years ago when I was Mayor of a small city in Ontario I had to make up the agenda for the first meeting of the year. We had five new alderman and I was a new Mayor. It was traditional to have a special meeting to more or less introduce the new council and get them started on the right foot. It was also tradition to invite a member of the clergy to say a few words of wisdom in the form of a prayer. I was covering all the bases when I came up with the idea of inviting several members of the clergy.
I invited my friend the Bishop of the Roman Catholic Church, The chairman of the Protestant Clergy Association and the Jewish Rabbi. With pomp and ceremony the Bishop blessed the council and asked God's help in bringing wisdom to the council in making good decisions. The Protestant Minister did likewise and asked God's help in giving the individual Aldermen strength and wisdom in carrying out their duty.
The Rabbi, who had a great sense of humour and command of the audience, stood and silently looked every member of the council in the eye, turned to the gathering of citizens and began to pray for the citizens. We all took it in good faith and it was a good reminder of what we were sent to do as elected officials. Later after the meeting the Rabbi said after hearing all the serious invocations a little humour would not hurt. I agreed.
You can imagine what an uproar this caused and the news media had a field day with the idea. They have pretty well settled this matter after a public outcry but are still concerned over the matter of a silent or verbal invocation at the beginning of council. Perhaps they should just tend to business and stay out of a field that is completely foreign to them. It makes for good comic relief.
Years ago when I was Mayor of a small city in Ontario I had to make up the agenda for the first meeting of the year. We had five new alderman and I was a new Mayor. It was traditional to have a special meeting to more or less introduce the new council and get them started on the right foot. It was also tradition to invite a member of the clergy to say a few words of wisdom in the form of a prayer. I was covering all the bases when I came up with the idea of inviting several members of the clergy.
I invited my friend the Bishop of the Roman Catholic Church, The chairman of the Protestant Clergy Association and the Jewish Rabbi. With pomp and ceremony the Bishop blessed the council and asked God's help in bringing wisdom to the council in making good decisions. The Protestant Minister did likewise and asked God's help in giving the individual Aldermen strength and wisdom in carrying out their duty.
The Rabbi, who had a great sense of humour and command of the audience, stood and silently looked every member of the council in the eye, turned to the gathering of citizens and began to pray for the citizens. We all took it in good faith and it was a good reminder of what we were sent to do as elected officials. Later after the meeting the Rabbi said after hearing all the serious invocations a little humour would not hurt. I agreed.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Cabbage Rolls
Late in the fall I had a tradition of making sauerkraut and cooking cabbage rolls. Making the kraut did not bother me but my family really hated the smell which lasted quite a while. I used to make three kinds and each took a different length of time to cure. One year I used my sons third floor bedroom for the process while he was away at school. Unfortunately he came home for the weekend.With the cabbage not used to make the kraut I used to make a large batch of cabbage rolls. I lived with an elderly lady when I was a young principal just getting started in the education business. Although she was over 80, she and her son - and later me - made kraut every fall. I was not used to the German food but learned to like it so much I acquired a special taste and interest in its preparation.
For the cabbage rolls I used a German recipe and later I modified it somewhat so it was more like Polish. Tonight we are having company as our neighbours are coming for supper. They are from Cuba originally and have special tastes of their own. In our food preparation I decided to make cabbage rolls while I had the urge for cooking. This time I used the slow cooker and hope all would be well.
The joys of cooking can only be matched by the joys of tasting you own homemade specialty foods. Since my family here are not fond of these comfort foods, I shall have to freeze most of them and feast on them when they are out shopping.
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
The Woodstorks Return
Southwest Florida is home to one of the largest rookeries of wood storks in the world. Every year about this time they come in numbers to set up house for their yearly mating. Several years ago there was not enough rain and the pools which provide the food for the young were dry. The wood storks did not set up house nor mate and there was fear for these endangered birds.
Last year there was plenty of rain and the rookeries were alive with new life and young birds were plentiful. This year I observed many new birds coming back to the area and I wish that the water level was a little higher but there seems to be sufficient water to have a successful breeding season.
Wood storks are by no means a beautiful bird when wading in a pool seeking food. A rather ugly head placed on a body which must have been designed by a committee betrays the real beauty of this large wading bird. From the moment they take to the air we see a marvelous streamlined bird capable of intricate maneuvers. Theresa and I saw several hundred in a flock flying in formation and doing what has been described as their bridal dance in the sky.
It was poetry in motion and we stopped our biking ride and watched in wonder as they dipped and dived in perfect order. Sometimes we see just a pair pass through this ritual and it is truly beautiful. Today as I played golf with my partners I was distracted by the beauty of a pair of wood storks and I knew they were back and meant business. I never cease to be amazed by the shows put on by mother nature.
Last year there was plenty of rain and the rookeries were alive with new life and young birds were plentiful. This year I observed many new birds coming back to the area and I wish that the water level was a little higher but there seems to be sufficient water to have a successful breeding season.
Wood storks are by no means a beautiful bird when wading in a pool seeking food. A rather ugly head placed on a body which must have been designed by a committee betrays the real beauty of this large wading bird. From the moment they take to the air we see a marvelous streamlined bird capable of intricate maneuvers. Theresa and I saw several hundred in a flock flying in formation and doing what has been described as their bridal dance in the sky.
It was poetry in motion and we stopped our biking ride and watched in wonder as they dipped and dived in perfect order. Sometimes we see just a pair pass through this ritual and it is truly beautiful. Today as I played golf with my partners I was distracted by the beauty of a pair of wood storks and I knew they were back and meant business. I never cease to be amazed by the shows put on by mother nature.
Monday, November 15, 2010
Mocking Bird
The state bird of Florida is the mocking bird. It is a medium sized bird, grey, black and white in colour and has many different songs. We are fortunate to have two families in our yard. They nest in low bushes at our place, normally in our pygmy date tree and make a neat nest of grass ans small twigs.They are territorial and defend their area by vigorous and aggressive defence. They are insect eaters and perch on trees and our house until lunch flies by and they attack. Small gecko's also become a meal if they are not careful. They play fight our tinted windows and provide us with hours of enjoyment.
The mocking bird however is most noted for its variety of songs. During the mating season they sing constantly and their songs are varied and sometimes quite complicated. These birds become part of our daily life and we certainly would miss them if they moved away. We have had several hatching's and three or four youngsters emerge from the well protected nest.
Every morning at daybreak you can hear the wake up call of the Mocking Bird welcoming a new day in paradise.
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Happy Birthday Grandaughter #1
My oldest grand daughter is having her 28th birthday today and I am far away and will miss the celebration. We phoned her today and had a new lesson on our computer. She walked Theresa and I through on a new fangled program called Skype. Our new computer has a built in camera and phone and after an hour we signed up and had the experience of seeing her live from her home far away.Since Lyndsay is the oldest of 8 grand children she was the main attraction for a while but later had to share the spotlight with the others. She has remained a caring person and mothers her youngest cousin and has a great relationship with the whole group. As a little one I was able to get my first lessons as a grandfather with her and now she gives me lessons on things new and modern like computers and such.
Hard work is is something you would not expect from such a little person but this year she surprised me by carrying boxes of hardwood up three flights of stairs when we installed her floor. Grandchildren are great and I am lucky to be blessed with eight and each one has special features. Your first is always special and her example has been good for all the rest and no doubt she feels a little responsibility being the oldest. Happy Birthday LRC.
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Delicious
We had some old friends over for supper the other evening and Theresa got creative and made this great desert. I do not know the name of it but it was just delicious.
Friday, November 12, 2010
Ant Control
One species which lives in Florida and is not welcome is the ant. They come in all sizes and when you are here for a while you begin to co-exist without much problem. Fire ants are the worst pest and I have suffered their wrath more than once and paid the price. Throughout the south these pesky little red ants live in colonies. These colonies can have as many as several million and claim a territory for hunting. They are easy to spot and control with pesticides but for the unaware they are dangerous.Theresa and I played golf with a rancher and he told us that red or fire ants were the biggest killer of new born calves and he aggressively strives to keep his ranch free of these killers. Fire ants also are responsible for the death of newly hatched birds and animals. Even young alligators become lunch for these ants.
Every year when I come here I go on ant patrol and try to rid my yard of ants. I worry about them biting my aging mother in law as they can do great harm to the unaware. Termites, carpenter ants and sugar ants are everywhere but are not as dangerous. After a day or so our area is cleared and we forget about the problem.
Golf courses which do not have a good policy on ant control pose a special danger. One day we were playing with two men from the north who were not knowledgeable about fire ants and suffered painful bites. He laid his extra club down on a nest while he putted out his ball. When he picked up his 9 iron it was covered with ants. We noticed this and ran to his rescue. Fortunately he received only a few bites but that was enough. He became a smarter player after that.
All this negative talk about ants could discourage you from coming down here but as long as you are aware of these little devils there is no problem. Theresa and Doris have never been bitten due to our ant control.
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Bismark Tree
Back when Hurricane Charlie ripped through the Cape it caused untold destruction. For us there was no real damage to our home except for a few screens on our pool cover and some trees. We had a most beautiful bougainvillea on our front lawn. It covered an area of about 100 square feet and had brilliant red colour. It was ripped from its roots.Theresa and I decided to plant a tree which would be a signature tree for our front landscaping. We took our time and after much consideration decided on a Bismarker. This is a sturdy palm with a bluish-grey-green colour. It would withstand the hurricane force and grow quite quickly.
Little did we know that this 5 year old tree would reach a height of 20 ft. and have branches or frowns weighing almost a hundred pounds. From a three frown tree in a one gallon pot to this so quickly amazed us. We do love it and it is easy to maintain it but maintain it you must. When we arrived here in October we had to saw off 9 branches. Each branch was 14 feet long and the composition of the branch is like hardwood.
It is a good idea when planting anything here to think what it will be like in five years. This tree will reach a height of 40 feet in 10 years so we shall have some time to enjoy it.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Final Edition
After four years or more of writing and getting material ready for a book I have arrived at what I will call the final edition. With so much material gathered and sorted in a series of musings and memories it is time to organize and edit. My daughter who is a professional writer and produces blogs in a humorous manner has been my editor in chief, critic and helpmate over the years. She has motivated me to put in print some of my memories and thoughts for the family.Years ago she bought me a mini recorder for me to tell the stories as I was nothing of a typist and my spelling was in need of repair. However with our interest in computers I was able to express myself through writing Blogs and have been happy with the result. Since I have always wanted to tell of my experiences for the younger members of our family and make a record of our parents and their struggle to have and raise 9 children, it has been my mission for years.
It starts out with pure memory and becomes personal when you express how the events in your memories impact you as an individual. When I began to write my thoughts I struggled with the idea that this is not what the rest of my family would remember or wish to remember. Many of my memories are outside of the family as I left home at an early age and travelled and delved into so many fields. There was always this connection with Cape Breton and my family and friends and I became aware of the strength one derives from being a part of a family. I have tried to maintain a connection with home and people who are important to me and make an effort to keep the lines open.
As I age in good health and with a comfortable relationship with my environment I realize how important it is to live a stress free life. I have that kind of life and intend to express these feelings through my memories of a life well lived.
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