It just seems like yesterday that we were celebrating the year 2000. We now are living on the last day of 2010. So much has transpired during this year which brought out all of our emotional triggers in response. Politics, volcanoes, earthquakes and of course sports. As much as I like to look back occasionally I really look forward to the uncharted waters of the future. An excitement grips my mind when I dare to daydream of all the opportunities which will avail themselves in the next 365 days.
Some of the challenges that await me are already cast but it is the unknown which amuses me. As a child I remember getting boxes, sent by our Aunt and Uncle filled with small treasures or so they seemed but it was the anticipation of the opening of the box that gave me pleasure. Life is a very exciting experience and this year will be no exception. I have some medical issues which will be resolved sometime this year and it will be new for me and I look upon this as an adventure. Adventures deal with the unknown and surprises are part of the trip. My wish is that my adventure and surprises meet my expectations.
During the next year I wish to communicate in a more meaningful way with my family and friends. Time shared with people give up the greatest rewards and offer opportunities to bring you closer to self actualization. Our growth curve sometimes becomes stagnant so this year I will make an effort to shake things up and revitalize my inner self.
Time shared with my grandchildren this holiday has been a eye opener and I have to get with it to keep up with their energy. So this is my goal and I will need much help to reach it. However the journey is the real test and I shall try to walk quickly and straight.
Friday, December 31, 2010
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Some Things Never Get Old...Just Better
On this December 30 morning I am doing as I always do every morning. I am sipping green tea and while sitting on my favourite chair, reading The Toronto Star from back to front my mind is dozing. This morning is a little different as there is a crispness about the environment as a heavy white frost coats the lawn and trees. I peer out the front window and wave to the same dog walkers and see the same cars drift down the street carrying sleepy workers to their jobs.
Through these hazy eyes I see my old friend the Christmas cactus. It is now the main attraction in the front window as the Christmas Tree is packed away for another year. I see it in a different light as it was pushed to the background for a few days and now appears as it should as a solid fixture in our home. It has a glorious history being over 150 years old. It once graced the home of my mother in laws's husband's grandmother's home in British Columbia. As the previous owners have long gone to their kind reward the plant became the property of my wife Theresa.
It is large by any standard and when Theresa decided to come East to live in Ontario it appeared that the plant would land in the hands of a stranger. When I first saw the beautiful flowering cactus I decided to make it my own and when returning from a visit to B.C. I tucked it in the back seat of a Honda Civic. It was quite a job to get it in the small car and it took up all the back seat space. As I travelled East I watered it but forgot to protect it from the sun. Part of it got burned along the journey.
I removed the plant from the car and established it to its place of importance and it has been there ever since, I have made many plants from the frowns of this cactus and its babies are just as beautiful as itself. A cactus such as this becomes a living symbol of the beauty of nature and during the cold winter months this flower not only blooms once but twice. The first blooming begins in December and lasts about two months and the second one begins in March and lasts until April. This show of colour brightens our spirits during a long winter.
Through these hazy eyes I see my old friend the Christmas cactus. It is now the main attraction in the front window as the Christmas Tree is packed away for another year. I see it in a different light as it was pushed to the background for a few days and now appears as it should as a solid fixture in our home. It has a glorious history being over 150 years old. It once graced the home of my mother in laws's husband's grandmother's home in British Columbia. As the previous owners have long gone to their kind reward the plant became the property of my wife Theresa.
It is large by any standard and when Theresa decided to come East to live in Ontario it appeared that the plant would land in the hands of a stranger. When I first saw the beautiful flowering cactus I decided to make it my own and when returning from a visit to B.C. I tucked it in the back seat of a Honda Civic. It was quite a job to get it in the small car and it took up all the back seat space. As I travelled East I watered it but forgot to protect it from the sun. Part of it got burned along the journey.
I removed the plant from the car and established it to its place of importance and it has been there ever since, I have made many plants from the frowns of this cactus and its babies are just as beautiful as itself. A cactus such as this becomes a living symbol of the beauty of nature and during the cold winter months this flower not only blooms once but twice. The first blooming begins in December and lasts about two months and the second one begins in March and lasts until April. This show of colour brightens our spirits during a long winter.
This cactus just shows us that some things never grow old but get better with age. We can take a lesson from this when dealing with old folks.
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Craftsmanship
As a young boy I was happy to make things out of wood using an ax, handsaw, hammer and a spoke shave. A coping saw came later and I used it when I had blades. My efforts were pretty crude but I continued until in my middle age when I graduated to rocking chairs, benches and boxes and large wood objects. These items never reached the point where they displayed a title of craftsmanship.A few days ago one of our friends came to stay overnight and during his visit he displayed about a dozen cheese boards. After we admired and commented about the quality of the product Don offered Theresa the opportunity to pick one out for us. Theresa had a difficult time in choosing because all were so beautiful and so well crafted. Finally she picked one out and we will treasure it and use it to highlight our table when we have guests.
Don gave instructions for the upkeep of the wooden board and left a note to identify the woods used in the production. Our board is made of Lyptus, Maple, Mahogany and Birds Eye Maple.
I admire people who are able to create a piece of art from nature's bounty. We collected many treasures over the years and this one is special.
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
The good. The Bad, The Ugly.
On first thought I see a positive picture of Canada with one of the best Olympics for our Country. The Venues in beautiful British Columbia were the perfect backdrop for this world event. Despite lack of snow and tremendous costs everyone agreed that this was a overwhelming success. Our opening and closing ceremonies highlighted the aboriginal roots to that area as well as the rest of Canada. I hope that the feelings expressed at the Olympics will be reflected in the governments treatment of its first nations needs, like clean water.
In a country where the rich are very rich and the poor are very poor we should ask the question WHY. The unequal distribution of wealth caused by our economy being controlled by international consortium's whose only purpose is to make a profit leaves us in a state where compassion is missing from the equation. In years past when most of our companies were small and controlled locally there was an element of local conscientiousness. Yes there was a profit motive but when the owner of the company lives in your town and sits beside you in church and coaches minor hockey you get a better picture of the way it was. This is only going to get worse and in a time where companies are growing so large that they are bigger than the government we can expect more of the same. This is the BAD.
For me the ugly was the manner that we as a country or more specifically the government handled the G9 and G20. I have never been so angry at the events that transpired in my entire life. We as a nation where, our prime minister walked among the crowds in Ottawa on Canada Day without great security or danger, where peaceful marches are a regular expression of showing our support for an issue , received a black eye for the manner we conducted ourselves on those few days in Toronto. Why? For a photo opp, a justification for spending $1,000,000,000 of taxpayers money or a complete lack of reading the situation in a timely manner. I trust the rest of the world will forget over time this mess and we will once again be held in high esteen for the way we treat our citizens participating in democratic actions.
In a country where the rich are very rich and the poor are very poor we should ask the question WHY. The unequal distribution of wealth caused by our economy being controlled by international consortium's whose only purpose is to make a profit leaves us in a state where compassion is missing from the equation. In years past when most of our companies were small and controlled locally there was an element of local conscientiousness. Yes there was a profit motive but when the owner of the company lives in your town and sits beside you in church and coaches minor hockey you get a better picture of the way it was. This is only going to get worse and in a time where companies are growing so large that they are bigger than the government we can expect more of the same. This is the BAD.
For me the ugly was the manner that we as a country or more specifically the government handled the G9 and G20. I have never been so angry at the events that transpired in my entire life. We as a nation where, our prime minister walked among the crowds in Ottawa on Canada Day without great security or danger, where peaceful marches are a regular expression of showing our support for an issue , received a black eye for the manner we conducted ourselves on those few days in Toronto. Why? For a photo opp, a justification for spending $1,000,000,000 of taxpayers money or a complete lack of reading the situation in a timely manner. I trust the rest of the world will forget over time this mess and we will once again be held in high esteen for the way we treat our citizens participating in democratic actions.
Monday, December 27, 2010
After Glow
Christmas having gone by so quickly I have time to relax in the after glow of another warm experience. Sharing time with family and friends had a tendency to charge your batteries and put you in a happy frame of mind. This year was special as usual but since all of us were together in the same room itwas indeed a bonus.
Although Christmas in not really about gifts I must confess that I received a carload of offerings that would make anyone very happy. A hand made Grand Father clock from my grandson was a surprise and we will complete the project together as he wished to stain it with a colour to my liking. A prospective carpenter in the family. My oldest granddaughter made a video of a Lemon tree which had significance from our long past relationship with nature and the art of growing beautiful plants from seeds.
My oldest daughter made me a one of a kind calendar to remind me of all the family birthdays and the photography is outstanding. Daughter #2 was taking care of my back and presented me with a massage and heat cushion to go with my lazy boy chair. Already I have reaped the benefits of this device. My youngest daughter spoiled our household with more cooking utensils from pampered chef. She knows how we love these products and this year she filled in all the blanks. One last in kitchen composter from my son completed the children's contributions to my well being and I loved each one. Grandchildren were creative in their gifts and all in all I will use and appreciate these thoughtful presentations.
However I want them to know that the short time we shared was more important and will linger longer than the material gifts as memories are forever. Already the pictures we took and shared are a small treasure and will enable me to re-live the joy of the Christmas of 2010. We can now look ahead to the days leading up to New Year's and a new beginning for all of us after such a positive year ending event called Family Christmas.
Although Christmas in not really about gifts I must confess that I received a carload of offerings that would make anyone very happy. A hand made Grand Father clock from my grandson was a surprise and we will complete the project together as he wished to stain it with a colour to my liking. A prospective carpenter in the family. My oldest granddaughter made a video of a Lemon tree which had significance from our long past relationship with nature and the art of growing beautiful plants from seeds.
My oldest daughter made me a one of a kind calendar to remind me of all the family birthdays and the photography is outstanding. Daughter #2 was taking care of my back and presented me with a massage and heat cushion to go with my lazy boy chair. Already I have reaped the benefits of this device. My youngest daughter spoiled our household with more cooking utensils from pampered chef. She knows how we love these products and this year she filled in all the blanks. One last in kitchen composter from my son completed the children's contributions to my well being and I loved each one. Grandchildren were creative in their gifts and all in all I will use and appreciate these thoughtful presentations.
However I want them to know that the short time we shared was more important and will linger longer than the material gifts as memories are forever. Already the pictures we took and shared are a small treasure and will enable me to re-live the joy of the Christmas of 2010. We can now look ahead to the days leading up to New Year's and a new beginning for all of us after such a positive year ending event called Family Christmas.
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Remembering the Past
As a young boy I used every means to make money.Besides my large paper route I used our horse and dump cart to haul ashes and shore coal. For this I gleaned dollars which I kept between the pages of on of Dads Eng1neer books. Around this time of the year Dad and I would go to the woods a cut Xmas trees, I do not think we knew who owned to land or trees as the coal company seemed to own just about everything.
We used a horse and sled and would pile 8 or 10 trees on and return home where we stood them in the snow. People would order the trees through Dad and we would deliver them and sometimes make a wooden stand for the customer. We would charge $2 for a regular tree and $3 for large ones. As these trees were not the tree farm variety they never seemed that good when we got home. They looked fine in the bush.
One Christmas we had a good year and must have sold 20 or more. We were always left with a few to choose from for our house. This particular year on the evening we were to trim our tree Dad brought in the best one of the rejects. All of us were very upset at the look of this squiggly, ugly Charlie Brown Tree.
Not to be too upsetting to the family Dad went to the garage and brought back a brace and bit, a spoke shave and a small saw. The piece of art began by Dad also bringing in another tree. He would drill a hole in the ugly tree, cut off a branch from the second tree and trim the end and shove it into the drilled hole. All this with 10 pairs of eyes on the operation. Branch after branch was added until Dad stood up the made over tree and it was perfect in our eyes. We all showed our appreciation by expressing our feelings with superlatives. Best expressed by our youngest who declared it the most beautiful tree she ever saw.
That year we had a special Christmas as it was the last year we were all together as a family.It was 1948, the year of the miners strike and the Year my sister went away to Teachers College in Truro. Best of all it showed once again how our Father could do anything he put his mind to. He was amazing.
We used a horse and sled and would pile 8 or 10 trees on and return home where we stood them in the snow. People would order the trees through Dad and we would deliver them and sometimes make a wooden stand for the customer. We would charge $2 for a regular tree and $3 for large ones. As these trees were not the tree farm variety they never seemed that good when we got home. They looked fine in the bush.
One Christmas we had a good year and must have sold 20 or more. We were always left with a few to choose from for our house. This particular year on the evening we were to trim our tree Dad brought in the best one of the rejects. All of us were very upset at the look of this squiggly, ugly Charlie Brown Tree.
Not to be too upsetting to the family Dad went to the garage and brought back a brace and bit, a spoke shave and a small saw. The piece of art began by Dad also bringing in another tree. He would drill a hole in the ugly tree, cut off a branch from the second tree and trim the end and shove it into the drilled hole. All this with 10 pairs of eyes on the operation. Branch after branch was added until Dad stood up the made over tree and it was perfect in our eyes. We all showed our appreciation by expressing our feelings with superlatives. Best expressed by our youngest who declared it the most beautiful tree she ever saw.
That year we had a special Christmas as it was the last year we were all together as a family.It was 1948, the year of the miners strike and the Year my sister went away to Teachers College in Truro. Best of all it showed once again how our Father could do anything he put his mind to. He was amazing.
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Bonus Points
With a few days to go before Christmas we thought everything was ready and waiting. However we received some bonus points in the way of unexpected greetings from friends from afar. There were few close golf partners and wives who sent us happy sounding greetings and I personally felt Florida warm by their remarks.
A close friend unexpectedly called to say he would be here for a night so we have the advantage of being filled in on all the news as he recently became a Grandfather. He is very excited about the baby but as his wife is away west to help the new mother Don is going to look after his mother and mother in law for a Christmas dinner. They are covering all the bases and that is the way it should be.
Our grandchildren are returning from exams at university and we love the interaction with these future leaders in our community. The fresh thinking of these young ones tells me we have nothing to fear in the future.
We have been able to contact nearly all the people we wish to bring greetings but a few will be last minute. I prefer a phone call to a card as you are able to extend your feelings and receive same in a warm manner. I find I also give my friends an opportunity to express thoughts, concerns and worries that might be left unsaid. For some it might be the only chance to get something off their chest before the new year.
Bonus points, Yes, rewards for being a friend to those who have impacted your life in a meaningful way.
A close friend unexpectedly called to say he would be here for a night so we have the advantage of being filled in on all the news as he recently became a Grandfather. He is very excited about the baby but as his wife is away west to help the new mother Don is going to look after his mother and mother in law for a Christmas dinner. They are covering all the bases and that is the way it should be.
Our grandchildren are returning from exams at university and we love the interaction with these future leaders in our community. The fresh thinking of these young ones tells me we have nothing to fear in the future.
We have been able to contact nearly all the people we wish to bring greetings but a few will be last minute. I prefer a phone call to a card as you are able to extend your feelings and receive same in a warm manner. I find I also give my friends an opportunity to express thoughts, concerns and worries that might be left unsaid. For some it might be the only chance to get something off their chest before the new year.
Bonus points, Yes, rewards for being a friend to those who have impacted your life in a meaningful way.
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Finishing Touches
With Christmas a few days away we are trying to put the finishing touches to our preparations. Theresa and Doris used two days of this busy time to wrap about 20 gifts for the special day and the tree trimming was easy as we only used our small window tree this year. Comfort food is every day as the weather seems cold for the spoiled Florida girls. Cabbage rolls, home made Boston Beans and tonight stew. John Denver sang it best when he sang, It Feels Good To Be Back Home Again.
We have an old Angel to place on the tree and it used to be special to hold one of the little ones up to place this ornament on top of the tree. It is getting ragged as it must be way over fifty years old and once belonged to my mother in law. I like it and this year as no small ones were around I placed her up there myself.
We are well organized and try to have everything ready days ahead so we can have a stress free few days to soak up the Xmas Energy to cope with Christmas Day.
I just heard Theresa saying , "That's It", meaning she tied the last bow and placed the last gift under the tree. All this being said there will still be a few finishing touches before Santa rings our door bell on the 25Th.
We have an old Angel to place on the tree and it used to be special to hold one of the little ones up to place this ornament on top of the tree. It is getting ragged as it must be way over fifty years old and once belonged to my mother in law. I like it and this year as no small ones were around I placed her up there myself.
We are well organized and try to have everything ready days ahead so we can have a stress free few days to soak up the Xmas Energy to cope with Christmas Day.
I just heard Theresa saying , "That's It", meaning she tied the last bow and placed the last gift under the tree. All this being said there will still be a few finishing touches before Santa rings our door bell on the 25Th.
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Christmas Traditions
Our family are so traditional when it comes to Xmas it would make you laugh. Even our grand children are upset if we suggest a small change in the way we celebrate our Christmas. From the decorations we have on our tree to the order we plan Christmas Day is set in stone. For us , we have some old decorations that have lingered for some years and must make an appearance on this special day.
We had a friend Arlyss who was into stained glass and usually gave or sold the first one made to us. He made angels of every variety, boats, flower plant holders and overhead light shades. All we're great but the nativity scene he gave us in 1978 was special. Every year I carefully pack it away to ensure it's safety. I have a special box with compartments to make sure no harm will come to Baby Jesus and Company. The box has been moved, dropped and squeezed but all has ended up OK.
This year I had a little harder time getting into the Xmas spirit but yesterday when I opened the box and placed the old scene on the Hi Fi Xmas was here. This season is so important to us as every member of our family will be together for a few days. Xmas day will have 21 of us around the table and when we devour the 30 lb turkey with trimmings and think of those who are no longer with us we will be thankful for a wonderful Family.
Our family began with we two and four little children. They in turn had 8 beautiful children and they brought more into our family. For me these are the best feelings I receive as the father of such a brood. What would Christmas be without this family bonding and a cementing of commitment to keep our family strong. Is not the Christmas season wonderful and magic .
We had a friend Arlyss who was into stained glass and usually gave or sold the first one made to us. He made angels of every variety, boats, flower plant holders and overhead light shades. All we're great but the nativity scene he gave us in 1978 was special. Every year I carefully pack it away to ensure it's safety. I have a special box with compartments to make sure no harm will come to Baby Jesus and Company. The box has been moved, dropped and squeezed but all has ended up OK.
This year I had a little harder time getting into the Xmas spirit but yesterday when I opened the box and placed the old scene on the Hi Fi Xmas was here. This season is so important to us as every member of our family will be together for a few days. Xmas day will have 21 of us around the table and when we devour the 30 lb turkey with trimmings and think of those who are no longer with us we will be thankful for a wonderful Family.
Our family began with we two and four little children. They in turn had 8 beautiful children and they brought more into our family. For me these are the best feelings I receive as the father of such a brood. What would Christmas be without this family bonding and a cementing of commitment to keep our family strong. Is not the Christmas season wonderful and magic .
Friday, December 17, 2010
Detroit Red Wings
I have been a faithful supporter of the Detroit Red Wings since 1947.In that year we used to listen to hockey broadcasts with our home made crystal sets. My brother Murray had the first crystal set in our house and showed me how to build and use this device. The reception on a clear winter night could have given this device it's name as it was crystal clear. The truth however is that the crystal gives life to the radio waves and in our mind magic.
Hockey games on the East Coast ofter were late as the hour different in time zone meant nearly midnight game endings. We would have our ear phones on and listened to the games without anyone knowing except we who had the earphones.
Detroit became my favourite team when a Maritimer named Hollett made the team and I never wavered since then. My friend from the Valley is also a believer and we have a mutual admiration society for the Wings. This year this well balanced team is leading the league it its division. We probably like the Wings because they keep their team together and have a balance between old veterans and new blood. They have without a doubt the best defence in the league made up pf one player approaching 44.
With the cooler weather and the world junior championships being played in Buffalo over the Xmas holidays how could you not get excited about Hockey. I believe that my loyalty to The Wings has kept me in good stead over the years as you learn to roll with the punches. Many years they were on top but some years they were rebuilding. I think they have some special source of power as depicted by this picture I caught the other day.
Hockey games on the East Coast ofter were late as the hour different in time zone meant nearly midnight game endings. We would have our ear phones on and listened to the games without anyone knowing except we who had the earphones.
Detroit became my favourite team when a Maritimer named Hollett made the team and I never wavered since then. My friend from the Valley is also a believer and we have a mutual admiration society for the Wings. This year this well balanced team is leading the league it its division. We probably like the Wings because they keep their team together and have a balance between old veterans and new blood. They have without a doubt the best defence in the league made up pf one player approaching 44.
With the cooler weather and the world junior championships being played in Buffalo over the Xmas holidays how could you not get excited about Hockey. I believe that my loyalty to The Wings has kept me in good stead over the years as you learn to roll with the punches. Many years they were on top but some years they were rebuilding. I think they have some special source of power as depicted by this picture I caught the other day.
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Frosty Welcome
As we prepared to leave Florida, the departure board read that a delay would keep us at the airport for an extra hour. Considering that you have to be available for all the formalities, it works out that we had something like 4 hours to kill. I read the papers left on the seats by departing travellers and even read USA Today. As the hour was late Monday, the air traffic was slow and there were few attractions to amuse disgruntled people, so the feelings were strained.As we prepared to leave we had a wheelchair to help Doris to the loading ramp. We were pushed to the head of the line all the way through customs, security and bypassed the lineups as we accompanied her. It did however, make our wait longer at the boarding area. Our flight was uneventful except for the landing where 30 to 40 mph winds bounced us around somewhat,
Our limousine took us to our door at the 2 am hour. Our driver was from Bosnia and chatted with us telling of his love for his new country, Canada. We tumbled into our house which had little welcome home signs and a full fridge. One sign was from a sick flower which proclaimed that its poor health was because it "missed it mom and dad" ... us.
After a quick sleep I awoke to a white, snowy wonderland. I took a few pictures and instantly realized how much I missed winter. We came home to a visit from the daughters and had the pleasure of sharing what we missed...family. Now there will be a flurry of doctor visits and other health concerns that will carry us through for the next while.
The things we take for granted as Canadians are so apparent when you are away for a while.
Monday, December 13, 2010
On Our Way Home
Waking up to a blustery day with wind and temperatures that will fall to freezing tonight makes me long for the snow and winter we expect when we get off our plane tonight at midnight. All day I have been a little depressed knowing that I could return to a dead garden. On the bright side I will be with friends and family for a while and maybe forget what might happen here.Since our flight is so late we will not get home until after midnight and we hope for a driveway that is clear and a warm house. My daughter makes sure we have supplies for the morning and so we can enjoy the early part of the day at home. Packing was a breeze this year as we travel a little lighter than we do when we drive.
Our neighbours came to wish us Merry Xmas and will keep an eye on our place when we are gone. Neighbour Watch is in effect in our area. Flying at night gives us the opportunity to catch up on a few winks on the way home. I will miss this good computer while away home but I shall try to catch up on my blogs in a few days.
Sunday, December 12, 2010
Frost Warnings
With frost warnings for the south west I have to prepare a defense against the enemy. Two massive cold waves have hit the USA in less than a week and has played havoc from the Arctic to Florida. The farmers here have battled the elements for years but the last three years have presented challenges never seen before. It seems the every wave of Canadian cold breaks new ground and records tumble. This Sunday, Monday and Tuesday will bring temperatures in the twenties in the interior and low thirties along the coast.I am taking no chances so I went to Home Depot and purchased materials to build a frost barrier. After a few hours of work I have a covered garden complete with sprinkler system to take care of my tender vegetables when I am away. I had the misfortune of losing all my above crops last year as well as the bananas and papaya's. I was able to replant but the season was shortened and I was unable to benefit from the produce.
Mother Nature constantly reminds us of her power and we must work with her to be in tune with our environment and be successful.
Early Xmas in Florida
Because we have our real Xmas back home in Canada we have a mini Xmas here. As many gifts are shared it would be impossible or ridiculous to take them home only to bring them back in a few weeks. We have a happy hour and exchange our personal gifts here. It has become a tradition and it gets us in the Christmas spirit.We have our decorations around the house and our home made star in the lanai and with the Xmas music playing everywhere you go you become totally immersed in the spirit. My surprise gift this year came on Black Friday when the girls gave me a new ride on lawn mower. It was very appropriate and our yard and lawns reflect the care given by this mechanical wonder.
The girls were showered with clothes and of course for Doris candy for her sweet tooth.With all the fuss and attempts to make it real the missing component was family to share the excitement and happiness of the moment. We are fortunate as we have a second chance in the next few days to experience that special feeling when we will be home with family. This was just a rehearsal for the real thing.
Friday, December 10, 2010
When is a Bargain Not a Bargain
Theresa's car gets a visit to the garage every year in spite of the fact she drives less than 1000 miles each year. Her car is a convenience and takes her to her hair appointments , local malls and anywhere else shopping promises some good fun and good prices. Her car sits in the garage all summer and when we return we start it up and away she goes. Sitting in the garage all summer is not good for the car so we have it checked. This year we neglected to do this and I realized the tires looked soft and the car did not seem right.
I told Theresa that I would look after this but before I had a chance she produced three coupons for a special 34 point checkup and an oil change for $22, $19.99 and $24.95. I left to get the job done and arrived at the first bargain deal and found the garage closed for the day. The second one called Duffy's had 6 bays and seemed busy. I pulled in and registered my needs. After answering all my personal history I turned over the keys and was asked to take a seat.
Before I had a chance to ask how long it would take my car was whisked into an empty bay. I was offered coffee, cookies and magazines so I felt that this was going to be a while. Entering the waiting room half a dozen people sat looking at nothing in particular I broke the silence by saying hi and received no response. These folks were unhappy about something so I tried again. What do you think about the tax breaks to wealthy people? All heads turned and I realized I hit a nerve. The Democrats in the group dove in defending the deal and the President, and the Republicans were loud in proclaiming what a #$%$$#@ jerk we had as President.
I declared I was from Canada and they all agreed I was a socialist and the talk turned to all that was nasty about our country and blamed us for everything including the weather. The conversation cooled and after we all filled our cups with coffee we began to look for a better conversation. There were even some compliments about Canada although none had ever been to Canada but they knew it was cold and we had a good health plan.
A man came into the shop and declared that he had the oil changed less than an hour ago and his car burned up the engine because the oil plug was missing. We all looked at each other and the manager whisked the customer into his office where a heated debate was heard by all of us through paper thin walls. My car was now being serviced and I was about to go out to check the oil plug but a large sign said no one was allowed on the work area.
Finally I was called up to the desk and presented with a bill for $42. I questioned it and gave the coupon but he said that Caddies took 7 quarts of oil and there was an added cost. I just wanted to get out of there so I paid the bill. The manager tried to hide his stress so gave all of us a free next oil change.
Leaving the garage and driving to my next stop I realized that sometimes a bargain is not really a bargain.
I told Theresa that I would look after this but before I had a chance she produced three coupons for a special 34 point checkup and an oil change for $22, $19.99 and $24.95. I left to get the job done and arrived at the first bargain deal and found the garage closed for the day. The second one called Duffy's had 6 bays and seemed busy. I pulled in and registered my needs. After answering all my personal history I turned over the keys and was asked to take a seat.
Before I had a chance to ask how long it would take my car was whisked into an empty bay. I was offered coffee, cookies and magazines so I felt that this was going to be a while. Entering the waiting room half a dozen people sat looking at nothing in particular I broke the silence by saying hi and received no response. These folks were unhappy about something so I tried again. What do you think about the tax breaks to wealthy people? All heads turned and I realized I hit a nerve. The Democrats in the group dove in defending the deal and the President, and the Republicans were loud in proclaiming what a #$%$$#@ jerk we had as President.
I declared I was from Canada and they all agreed I was a socialist and the talk turned to all that was nasty about our country and blamed us for everything including the weather. The conversation cooled and after we all filled our cups with coffee we began to look for a better conversation. There were even some compliments about Canada although none had ever been to Canada but they knew it was cold and we had a good health plan.
A man came into the shop and declared that he had the oil changed less than an hour ago and his car burned up the engine because the oil plug was missing. We all looked at each other and the manager whisked the customer into his office where a heated debate was heard by all of us through paper thin walls. My car was now being serviced and I was about to go out to check the oil plug but a large sign said no one was allowed on the work area.
Finally I was called up to the desk and presented with a bill for $42. I questioned it and gave the coupon but he said that Caddies took 7 quarts of oil and there was an added cost. I just wanted to get out of there so I paid the bill. The manager tried to hide his stress so gave all of us a free next oil change.
Leaving the garage and driving to my next stop I realized that sometimes a bargain is not really a bargain.
Thursday, December 9, 2010
What Is Wrong With This Picture?
Some ten years ago when the government of the USA had a balanced budget President Bush and Congress gave the American people a tax cut. The tax break was substantial and gave benefits to all taxpayers. These tax cuts were continued until December 31,2010. President Obama promised to remove these tax breaks for the wealthy but continue them for the middle class.
However the Republican"s wanted to continue the tax breaks for all. This would cost many dollars and dollars that are not in the budget. It would mean that the lowering of taxes would have to be paid from borrowed money. This would raise the deficit in a time when all politicians stated that debt control and jobs were critical to the healthy economic future of the country.
It is beyond my ability to understand the sense of this decision which has to get approval from the house to become law. The extension is for two more years and has earmarks on the legislation . One earmark would extend the unemployment benefits for 13 more months. The economics of this lowering of taxes has me worried. Help...What is wrong with this picture?
However the Republican"s wanted to continue the tax breaks for all. This would cost many dollars and dollars that are not in the budget. It would mean that the lowering of taxes would have to be paid from borrowed money. This would raise the deficit in a time when all politicians stated that debt control and jobs were critical to the healthy economic future of the country.
It is beyond my ability to understand the sense of this decision which has to get approval from the house to become law. The extension is for two more years and has earmarks on the legislation . One earmark would extend the unemployment benefits for 13 more months. The economics of this lowering of taxes has me worried. Help...What is wrong with this picture?
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
December 8 Frost in Florida
Canadians get blamed for many things here in Florida but this week there was a number of radio and TV stations blaming us for the frosty weather. Last year we experienced some of the coldest nights on record for January and February. This year it is only December 8Th and we have heavy ground frost and record breaking cold. We just finished the warmest month on record in November and on the first day of December all hell broke loose. Farmers, fishermen and tourists are being treated to temperatures in the thirties and in some areas twenties.So much much for bragging about my special garden this year as I am losing sleep trying to keep my vegetable garden watered and covered to protect it from the cold. It was cold enough to write on the ice covered windshield and the hose was frozen although the temperature was 37 degrees.
Since I will be away for the Xmas holiday I will have to be careful to make a permanent structure over the tended vegetables. Who said it never gets cold in the sunny paradise called Florida. This cold snap showed frigid temperatures from the high Arctic to Cuba. Yes even Cuba had cold weather but not cold by our standards.
This morning our bird watering station was frozen and the cats were licking the ice to get a drink. We took a few pictures and after 9 in the morning we were back to near normal with a 30 degree temperature change. Life can be interesting when Mother Nature shows her claws and teaches us not to take anything for granted. The saying here is , Where is this global warming ?
Monday, December 6, 2010
Skype
Most people do not get excited with some of the modern technology but I for one am amazed at most if not all the new communication technology. As one who had limited experience with computers in the workplace other than as a retrieval service now feel lost if I don't use some form or another every day.
I was introduced to Skype when we bought a new computer and it came with a built in camera and other features that were new to me. With the help of my literate grand daughter we managed to set me up and I have been excited about it every day since. Through this media I have really connected with a long time friend from across Canada to the back woods of Cape Breton . My friend has Skype and now we are able to actually have conversations with a picture to match.
The extra connection makes our long range conversations come alive and more frequent. It is amazing to me that we have come this far so quickly and that older people like me have embraced the technology. Yes there are a few that say they will never use or need a computer but that is because they fear failure so run away. For the many who now use the latest devices it has enriched their lives and brings the whole world into focus. For the ones who have lost their mobility the Internet becomes their way of experiencing life vicariously.
The only problem with Skype is that you have to make sure you are properly dressed and for the ladies to make sure their lipstick is on straight. For all the people who made these magical miracles reality I salute you for making life just a whole lot better for all of us.
I was introduced to Skype when we bought a new computer and it came with a built in camera and other features that were new to me. With the help of my literate grand daughter we managed to set me up and I have been excited about it every day since. Through this media I have really connected with a long time friend from across Canada to the back woods of Cape Breton . My friend has Skype and now we are able to actually have conversations with a picture to match.
The extra connection makes our long range conversations come alive and more frequent. It is amazing to me that we have come this far so quickly and that older people like me have embraced the technology. Yes there are a few that say they will never use or need a computer but that is because they fear failure so run away. For the many who now use the latest devices it has enriched their lives and brings the whole world into focus. For the ones who have lost their mobility the Internet becomes their way of experiencing life vicariously.
The only problem with Skype is that you have to make sure you are properly dressed and for the ladies to make sure their lipstick is on straight. For all the people who made these magical miracles reality I salute you for making life just a whole lot better for all of us.
Friday, December 3, 2010
Dec 3, 2010
This morning Theresa took a few pictures of our yard and garden and I was impressed with the show of colour. We have a watering system which provides plenty of moisture for even the most needy vegetation. However a cold front moved through on the first day of December and everything burst forward at a fantastic rate.The rain lasted less than half an hour and was accompanied by heavy wind. It was only the second rain we had since coming down and was welcomed. It was the banana tree that made the big jump followed by the beans. After a good start everything in the garden remained much the same until this burst of energy in the form of warm rain.
We watch the changes in our vegetation daily and are amazed how it responds to its environment. Since we are totally organic and just use compost and manure for plant nourishment some of the results do not look like items you buy in the supermarket unless you pay more and buy from the ever increasing organic section..People are changing their ways and expecting more from their produce. Efforts are being made to clean up our food and that is a good thing.
Our family is becoming more and more aware of what we eat and are trying to support the green and organic programs. My regret at this time is that much of our produce will be ready to eat while we are on vacation up north.
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Cold Wind From The North
The bad weather experienced in north eastern USA and Canada arrived in Florida in time for the first of December. Mother nature was telling us it was indeed winter back home and sent us the little message so we could adjust to the weather we experience when returning home for Xmas. It was a shock to wake up to temperatures in the high forties and in some areas high thirties.
Up to the last day of November we had hot weather about 6 to 10 degrees above average. On Dec.1 the workers coming for our recycling were wearing clothes we would wear when it is 20 degrees below zero. Many people here are from the Islands and any weather that is even cool puts them in a winter mode. As we keep our pool open all winter and swim every day the locals think we are strange but then they realize we are Canadians.
I find the winter weather here ideal for all outside activities and biking, fishing and gardening are all good to go . This cooler weather makes us feel like we are in a Christmas mode and all we would need is a little snow. Entering all stores and public places the Xmas music is blaring but it hard for us to feel the spirit until we have the appropriate weather.
Every time we call or Skype , the first question is how is the weather. We look forward to feeling that cool or cold air on our arrival up there. On many vacant lots here Xmas trees are being sold. Many people who are formerly from the northern climate feel better when they take home a real tree and smell the fresh fragrance of a real spruce or pine tree.
So December has welcomed us in a true northern manner so all we have to do is act like we have been given the signal to start thinking Christmas.
Up to the last day of November we had hot weather about 6 to 10 degrees above average. On Dec.1 the workers coming for our recycling were wearing clothes we would wear when it is 20 degrees below zero. Many people here are from the Islands and any weather that is even cool puts them in a winter mode. As we keep our pool open all winter and swim every day the locals think we are strange but then they realize we are Canadians.
I find the winter weather here ideal for all outside activities and biking, fishing and gardening are all good to go . This cooler weather makes us feel like we are in a Christmas mode and all we would need is a little snow. Entering all stores and public places the Xmas music is blaring but it hard for us to feel the spirit until we have the appropriate weather.
Every time we call or Skype , the first question is how is the weather. We look forward to feeling that cool or cold air on our arrival up there. On many vacant lots here Xmas trees are being sold. Many people who are formerly from the northern climate feel better when they take home a real tree and smell the fresh fragrance of a real spruce or pine tree.
So December has welcomed us in a true northern manner so all we have to do is act like we have been given the signal to start thinking Christmas.
Christmas
It was only officially recognized as a holiday in the USA years after Thanksgiving because it was thought to be too sacred a day to celebrate it except as a church going celebration. Thanksgiving was recognized by Congress earlier but the day was December 18th. Christmas remained as a religious celebration for years until we began to commercialize it and make it what it is today. Most people still understand the significance of this day but Christmas has become a time of many types of recognition.
With the introduction of Santa, gift giving and family get togethers, it is the special day for many in the whole year. In simpler times like when I was a child we looked forward to Xmas for weeks ahead. There was great emphasis in church and school about the Christmas Story and everything and it was meant as a religious celebration. It held however, special memories of home and family. Weeks ahead Mom would bake her light and dark fruit cake and carefully wrap it in special cloth and place it in a crock until Xmas. Home made mincemeat would be bottled, ready for those special pies and tarts which again were symbols of Xmas.
Our father would disappear to his work station in the garage only to display his handwork at Xmas. Home made gifts were common and expected. We as children would write on paper what we would like Santa to bring to us and we would wait until a hot fire was burning in the kitchen stove and one after the other we would toss in our wish list and watch it go up in smoke. Somehow Santa was to get the message and fill the orders.
Rumors would circulate in our home that Santa was watching us and we had to be good. If we were not we could be missed on Xmas morning or at least have a bag of coal placed in our stocking. I had coal in my stocking every year I think. We tried to get a big sock to hang up but it did not matter as each of us got the same thing. In our home everyone received an orange, an apple, grapes wrapped in tissue paper and hard candy. The hard candy was all colours and some was called ribbon candy. The special treat was the little bag of mixed nuts, Brazil, hazel and almonds. When we picked up our socks at the same time we always acted surprised and then the lessons of sharing and breaking the nuts with only two hammers when there was a dozen of us was fun. We never had a nut cracker.
We expected and received one gift along with a few smaller items shared among family members. We all saved and bought Mom and Dad gifts. For Dad, it was pipe tobacco or a pipe and little items he liked. For Mom it was chocolates , handkerchiefs or perfume. One year I gave my Mom two tiny vases which were hand painted and from Japan. I bought them at the 5 and ten for 15 cents each. Mom kept them and when she passed away my father gave them back to me. I treasured them and passed them on to my younger sister as she wanted a memory item of Mom. I recently saw a pair of these same vases at a yard sale and was tempted to buy them but I did not.
Besides fattening up the chickens for dinner dad would get some special foods and pop to make the day special. Dad would go to the local pop maker and get several cases of mixed drinks. My favourite was iron brew but we all had our special flavours met .Our house was invaded by friends ,uncles , neighbours and excited children showing off what Santa had brought. Later we would go skating on the pond right next to our home and have fun with all the local people. Home for the Xmas feast where Mom could produce six drumsticks from two hens and we all praised everything that was served and enjoyed the bounty rarely seen except on Christmas.
For us Christmas was family, and it still is.
With the introduction of Santa, gift giving and family get togethers, it is the special day for many in the whole year. In simpler times like when I was a child we looked forward to Xmas for weeks ahead. There was great emphasis in church and school about the Christmas Story and everything and it was meant as a religious celebration. It held however, special memories of home and family. Weeks ahead Mom would bake her light and dark fruit cake and carefully wrap it in special cloth and place it in a crock until Xmas. Home made mincemeat would be bottled, ready for those special pies and tarts which again were symbols of Xmas.
Our father would disappear to his work station in the garage only to display his handwork at Xmas. Home made gifts were common and expected. We as children would write on paper what we would like Santa to bring to us and we would wait until a hot fire was burning in the kitchen stove and one after the other we would toss in our wish list and watch it go up in smoke. Somehow Santa was to get the message and fill the orders.
Rumors would circulate in our home that Santa was watching us and we had to be good. If we were not we could be missed on Xmas morning or at least have a bag of coal placed in our stocking. I had coal in my stocking every year I think. We tried to get a big sock to hang up but it did not matter as each of us got the same thing. In our home everyone received an orange, an apple, grapes wrapped in tissue paper and hard candy. The hard candy was all colours and some was called ribbon candy. The special treat was the little bag of mixed nuts, Brazil, hazel and almonds. When we picked up our socks at the same time we always acted surprised and then the lessons of sharing and breaking the nuts with only two hammers when there was a dozen of us was fun. We never had a nut cracker.
We expected and received one gift along with a few smaller items shared among family members. We all saved and bought Mom and Dad gifts. For Dad, it was pipe tobacco or a pipe and little items he liked. For Mom it was chocolates , handkerchiefs or perfume. One year I gave my Mom two tiny vases which were hand painted and from Japan. I bought them at the 5 and ten for 15 cents each. Mom kept them and when she passed away my father gave them back to me. I treasured them and passed them on to my younger sister as she wanted a memory item of Mom. I recently saw a pair of these same vases at a yard sale and was tempted to buy them but I did not.
Besides fattening up the chickens for dinner dad would get some special foods and pop to make the day special. Dad would go to the local pop maker and get several cases of mixed drinks. My favourite was iron brew but we all had our special flavours met .Our house was invaded by friends ,uncles , neighbours and excited children showing off what Santa had brought. Later we would go skating on the pond right next to our home and have fun with all the local people. Home for the Xmas feast where Mom could produce six drumsticks from two hens and we all praised everything that was served and enjoyed the bounty rarely seen except on Christmas.
For us Christmas was family, and it still is.
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Winter Golf
Since the weather is extremely hot during the summer months in Florida, winter golf is the way to go. The days are shorter so we don't start until 7am. The coolness of the morning sometimes requires a sweater or light jacket but by 9am you are back to normal with temperatures of 75-80. The snowbirds usually crowd the courses and of course the prices to play go way up.In the summer and fall golf is an inexpensive sport but come December to May prices double or triple. Our 27 hole course is minutes from our home and is kept in mint condition. It is home to hundreds of birds and some snakes and alligators. The eagle and osprey nest nearby and the shore and wading birds abound in the shallow lakes which are a feature on nearly every hole.Since we are creatures of habit we play with the same people every week and socialize with the whole group on the 19Th hole.
Very few of our group could be considered great golfers but we manage to have respectable scores.The more serious people manage to stick together but for us the exercise and fun is the main purpose.We do play for a small financial reward every week and the money is usually spread around. On a good day you might win $30 but on most days you will not be in the money.Golf is a wonderful way to use three or four hours every week and our wives encourage us to attend to get us out of their hair.
Florida is a good place to live during the winter months but golf makes it a great place to live anytime.
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