Under One Roof

This week is one I have been looking forward to for some time. As a family we attempt to get together as often as possible. Because of the geography it is difficult for all of us to be under the same roof at the same time. This week we will all be together except one grandson Henry who will be at Air Cadet Camp.

Our family group comprises our four children, their significant others and the grandchildren. Along with Doris, the oldest at 92, we count nearly twenty. For all of us to be at one table causes some changes to be made in the dining room. We do manage to get everyone seated and fed at the same time.

Theresa is celebrating her birthday a few days early so as to have all the folks present. There is always something special that happens when we interact with our close family. Energy is released and we benefit from the physical contact and the lively conversations that will surely evolve. Each one will try to hold the ear of the group at some time and news will be shared and gossip exchanged. Time will fly and we will regret having to part too quickly for our liking.

For me the true essence of a family is how it comes together and you can observe the common bond each has for the group and each other. A agenda is not necessary when they converge on our home but trying to keep up with the divergent conversations is almost impossible. Although there are common bonds it is the individual characteristics which makes our family interesting.This is probably true in every family but we have always encouraged our kids to speak up and be counted and they can speak. A few of our children have the ability to talk non stop for hours.

For the next few days we shall soak up all the good feelings and love to keep us happy until we get together again.